i met my last boyfriend at a bar. he was the first guy i saw when i walked into the room bc he is tall. i told my friend i was with that i thought he was cute. i kept brushing by him as i walked by until finally he started talking to me. he says his friends made fun of me for my trying to be subtle but actually really obvious approach. we hit it off and ended up together for two years.
usually i have horrible luck at bars but i have actually met one other nice guy at a bar before but that was at a college bar so it is different.
so i guess there is some hope for meeting people at bars...even though it is usually hard/sucky