Women: do you have the 2-3 day rule for calling too?

[keepup]

keepup, do you play the piano by any chance?

I wish. I used to mess around on the keyboard. Do you?

[keepup]

keepup -- do you really think that pretty much every boy who likes a girl will ask her out?

No Im not saying this. I probably wasnt too clear in my first statement.

or are you saying that if he doesn't ask you out he must have not liked you [enough]?

This is what I usually think.

[keepup]

I'm not getting any of that from keepup's statements... what I gather from what she said is that if a boy asks her out, she might go out with him.  If he doesn't, she won't.  I don't think she's necessarily going into motives here.

As for the OP - I probably wouldn't return a call from a guy if he waited til Wednesday to call me when I gave him my number Saturday, unless he called again within a short period of time.  I'd wait til tomorrow evening and call her again if you haven't heard back.

And... I'm also not stating anything about men's ball sizes or whether or not they have courage or anything.  I'm just of the opinion that if I'm interested in someone, he'd better show that he's interested in me too, or I'm not going to waste my time.  I've called guys within a day or two, and I've had guys call me the next day.  It's not scary or crazy, it's flattering to know someone is interested.

Same here. I dont have a problem calling a guy right back when he calls me. I dont like games and the whole "well you need to wait 3 days before calling or whatever." Im pretty honest about what I think/feel and I would hope that the other person is the same way.

[keepup]

or are you saying that if he doesn't ask you out he must have not liked you [enough]?

This is what I usually think.

i see. 

what do you think?

[Johnny Stuffs His Mouth]

keepup, do you play the piano by any chance?

I do. I have long, beautiful fingers.

is it because you play the piano or do you have good genes?

Probably genes. I'm mostly kidding though. Well, not really; they are rather slender and aesthetically pleasing.

[keepup]

keepup, do you play the piano by any chance?

I wish. I used to mess around on the keyboard. Do you?

i used to when i was little but i stopped after a 3-4 years.  i've been playing the flute for about 13 years though.

Thats cool. I played clarinet for a bit, but stopped because my band teacher was kind of crazy. I really wish that I could play the piano though.

[Johnny Stuffs His Mouth]

keepup, do you play the piano by any chance?

I do. I have long, beautiful fingers.

is it because you play the piano or do you have good genes?

Probably genes. I'm mostly kidding though. Well, not really; they are rather slender and aesthetically pleasing.

i think you know you need to post a pic of your 'aestetically pleasing' hands now 

Crap. Maybe when I get home.

[KingJamesFan]

this thread has only been around since 10:30AM and its hijacked already?

well played.

[Johnny Stuffs His Mouth]

this thread has only been around since 10:30AM and its hijacked already?

well played.

How to hijack a post in 6 replies or less:

http://www.lawschooldiscussion.org/prelaw/index.php/topic,81040.msg1944228/boardseen.html#new

[kirps]

this thread has only been around since 10:30AM and its hijacked already?

well played.

Yeah it got pretty well yanked, all I wanted to do was have somewhere to vent the fact that I am completely neurotic about girls so that it doesn't become completely obvious to the girl that I am trying to get a date with. She's pretty awesome, so I want to put my best game forward. I am one of the guys who isn't confident, but fakes it pretty well if that makes sense.

And by way of a question, is Tuesday evening 7:30 really too long to wait if she gave me her number at 2:30 am saturday night/sunday morning?