Law School Discussion

Poll

How do you like your realtionship with Men?

100-0  He totaly controls my life
2 (2.7%)
90-10
2 (2.7%)
80-20
0 (0%)
70-30
2 (2.7%)
60-40
7 (9.6%)
50-50 - everythings equal
18 (24.7%)
40-60
7 (9.6%)
30-70
5 (6.8%)
20-80
3 (4.1%)
10-90
0 (0%)
0-100 - I control all he does
1 (1.4%)
Im curious and/or male
26 (35.6%)

Total Members Voted: 62

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« on: May 26, 2006, 05:11:58 AM »
So, ive seen and read some interesting things recenlty.  where do you stand?

feel free to elaborate

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Re: Women and Control
« Reply #1 on: May 26, 2006, 05:17:14 AM »
50/50

you???

i thought youd at least be more in charge...

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« Reply #2 on: May 26, 2006, 06:52:11 AM »
where are all the subs this morning?

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« Reply #3 on: May 26, 2006, 06:53:44 AM »
Hmm...I would tell him 50/50 is the best.

but really I like 30/70. I like being in control. I'm pretty sure he knows that anyway.

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Re: Women and Control
« Reply #4 on: May 26, 2006, 06:59:19 AM »
About what kinds of things are we talking about here though?  I mean, it's easy to take control of where you eat dinner or what movie you go see, but are we talking about life decisions here: where to live, what career to pursue, how many children to have?

I can't imagine a relationship could even be close to sustainable without a 50/50 split in important decisions or at least a genuine compromise.

interpret the question how you see fit.

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Re: Women and Control
« Reply #5 on: May 26, 2006, 07:05:36 AM »
People have said I'm whipped, but I look at it as being very nice. 

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Re: Women and Control
« Reply #6 on: May 26, 2006, 07:17:35 AM »
People have said I'm whipped, but I look at it as being very nice. 

Whipped.

No I don't think so.  I'm just nice.  And I get what I want through passive agressive manipulation.

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« Reply #7 on: May 26, 2006, 07:21:15 AM »
People have said I'm whipped, but I look at it as being very nice. 

Whipped.

No I don't think so.  I'm just nice.  And I get what I want through passive agressive manipulation.

Whipped and manipulative is no way to go through life son.

What should I do?

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Re: Women and Control
« Reply #8 on: May 26, 2006, 07:21:21 AM »
would the ladies that prefer a dominant man care to speak up?

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Re: Women and Control
« Reply #9 on: May 26, 2006, 07:27:04 AM »
People have said I'm whipped, but I look at it as being very nice. 

Whipped.

No I don't think so.  I'm just nice.  And I get what I want through passive agressive manipulation.

Whipped and manipulative is no way to go through life son.

What should I do?

Stop being so nice, start being more challenging.  Ask outright for what you want.

But I get what I want anyway...usually its given to me because I'm nice.