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Title: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on May 26, 2006, 05:11:58 AM
So, ive seen and read some interesting things recenlty.  where do you stand?

feel free to elaborate
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on May 26, 2006, 05:17:14 AM
50/50

you???

i thought youd at least be more in charge...
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on May 26, 2006, 06:52:11 AM
where are all the subs this morning?
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: chevelle on May 26, 2006, 06:53:44 AM
Hmm...I would tell him 50/50 is the best.

but really I like 30/70. I like being in control. I'm pretty sure he knows that anyway.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on May 26, 2006, 06:59:19 AM
About what kinds of things are we talking about here though?  I mean, it's easy to take control of where you eat dinner or what movie you go see, but are we talking about life decisions here: where to live, what career to pursue, how many children to have?

I can't imagine a relationship could even be close to sustainable without a 50/50 split in important decisions or at least a genuine compromise.

interpret the question how you see fit.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: the original dunson on May 26, 2006, 07:05:36 AM
People have said I'm whipped, but I look at it as being very nice. 
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: the original dunson on May 26, 2006, 07:17:35 AM
People have said I'm whipped, but I look at it as being very nice. 

Whipped.

No I don't think so.  I'm just nice.  And I get what I want through passive agressive manipulation.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: the original dunson on May 26, 2006, 07:21:15 AM
People have said I'm whipped, but I look at it as being very nice. 

Whipped.

No I don't think so.  I'm just nice.  And I get what I want through passive agressive manipulation.

Whipped and manipulative is no way to go through life son.

What should I do?
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on May 26, 2006, 07:21:21 AM
would the ladies that prefer a dominant man care to speak up?
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: the original dunson on May 26, 2006, 07:27:04 AM
People have said I'm whipped, but I look at it as being very nice. 

Whipped.

No I don't think so.  I'm just nice.  And I get what I want through passive agressive manipulation.

Whipped and manipulative is no way to go through life son.

What should I do?

Stop being so nice, start being more challenging.  Ask outright for what you want.

But I get what I want anyway...usually its given to me because I'm nice.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: the original dunson on May 26, 2006, 07:38:13 AM

But I get what I want anyway...usually its given to me because I'm nice.

It seems to me like she would eventually lose respect for you.

No way.  You can earn respect through other ways.  You can be strong and respected but be sweet and nice to your girl.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: the original dunson on May 26, 2006, 07:55:40 AM

But I get what I want anyway...usually its given to me because I'm nice.

It seems to me like she would eventually lose respect for you.

No way.  You can earn respect through other ways.  You can be strong and respected but be sweet and nice to your girl.

TITCR

 ;D

Most guys don't see this.  Girls always respect me because I'm powerful and stuff, but I know that a girl is a princess and deserves to be treated gently. 
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: chevelle on May 26, 2006, 08:12:42 AM
Why does anyone need to show control to have respect?

If you are in a 50/50 relationship, to me that is the most respect you could give one another, because you are both showing each other respect, caring about what the other one thinks, listening to one another, etc.

I don't think my boyfriend would think I was respecting him by agreeing with him all the time, or not arguing with him when he wants to do something I don't want to, he would just think I was being wimpy. And wimpy was never me.

I also don't think I'd feel respected if he just did every single thing I said, I feel more respected when he can talk to me openly about things.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: the original dunson on May 26, 2006, 08:13:59 AM
;D

Most guys don't see this.  Girls always respect me because I'm powerful and stuff, but I know that a girl is a princess and deserves to be treated gently. 

That's kind of demeaning if you ask me.  Any girl that would find being called "a princess that deserves to be treated gently" cute is one I wouldn't be interested in.

And you're so powerful that you get what you want through passive aggressive manipulation?  There's a disconnect there and I'm willing to bet it's because you're a big softy that gets walked all over but thinks he's a powerful man who gets respect.

I was semi joking about the passive agressive manipulation.  I've just been called that by my parents. 

lol

I definitely don't get walked all over. 

Girls that know they're princesses are hawt.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: He-man on May 26, 2006, 08:22:04 AM
       Today's "modern" man is a real lightweight. Out of fear of being labeled sexist, he's been trained to defer to the woman in his life. Displays of masculinity are frowned down upon. Western men are just panzies. Women in a 60/40 or worse believe they are living the realtionship dream, but deep down no hetero woman respects a wimp, the type of "man" who weeps after having sex and is always asking her, "What do you think, sweetheart?" Men are more accomodating now than ever before and women are dumping them in droves. Over 2/3 off all marriage break-ups are initiated by women.

My advice: Get some balls, boys, and try dating outside your culture/race. It will save you years of grief. Let the western "womyn" date other "womyn."  
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: Vannabunny on May 26, 2006, 08:22:54 AM
20/80
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: Vannabunny on May 26, 2006, 08:25:13 AM
You can be "hawt" and high-maintence
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: the original dunson on May 26, 2006, 08:28:08 AM
       Today's "modern" man is a real lightweight. Out of fear of being labeled sexist, he's been trained to defer to the woman in his life. Displays of masculinity are frowned down upon. Western men are just panzies. Women in a 60/40 or worse believe they are living the realtionship dream, but deep down no hetero woman respects a wimp, the type of "man" who weeps after having sex and is always asking her, "What do you think, sweetheart?" Men are more accomodating now than ever before and women are dumping them in droves. Over 2/3 off all marriage break-ups are initiated by women.

My advice: Get some balls, boys, and try dating outside your culture/race. It will save you years of grief. Let the western "womyn" date other "womyn." 

Definitely a great first post. 


Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on May 26, 2006, 08:28:36 AM
seems skewed towards the women being in charge....
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: the original dunson on May 26, 2006, 08:28:52 AM

Girls that know they're princesses are hawt.

Replace 'hawt' with 'high-maintenance' and you've got it.

I don't really get why girls are called high maintenance as though relationships should not require some paying attention to the girl.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: Vannabunny on May 26, 2006, 08:30:54 AM
seems skewed towards the women being in charge....

Maybe because of the types of women who are on this board/who apply to law school?
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: the original dunson on May 26, 2006, 08:36:06 AM

I don't really get why girls are called high maintenance as though relationships should not require some paying attention to the girl.

Some attention, sure.  But I think you know what most men mean when they say high maintenance.  They're not talking about a girl that needs attention, every one does, they're talking about the girl that demands constant, full attention.  That's unreasonable and makes you a friggin' Sally.

I don't see why we shouldn't be a bit obsequious.  We did oppress them for thousands of years.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on May 26, 2006, 08:37:44 AM

I don't really get why girls are called high maintenance as though relationships should not require some paying attention to the girl.

Some attention, sure.  But I think you know what most men mean when they say high maintenance.  They're not talking about a girl that needs attention, every one does, they're talking about the girl that demands constant, full attention.  That's unreasonable and makes you a friggin' Sally.

I don't see why we shouldn't be a bit obsequious.  We did oppress them for thousands of years.
then whats one more generation matter?
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: the original dunson on May 26, 2006, 08:39:49 AM

I don't really get why girls are called high maintenance as though relationships should not require some paying attention to the girl.

Some attention, sure.  But I think you know what most men mean when they say high maintenance.  They're not talking about a girl that needs attention, every one does, they're talking about the girl that demands constant, full attention.  That's unreasonable and makes you a friggin' Sally.

I don't see why we shouldn't be a bit obsequious.  We did oppress them for thousands of years.
then whats one more generation matter?

That's awful.

 
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: veg on May 26, 2006, 08:44:04 AM
(I have a newfound respect for Dunson.)
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: revelareveritas on May 26, 2006, 08:44:56 AM
I found "The Politically Incorrect Guide to Women, Sex, and Feminism"
by Carrie Lukas to be an interesting read...
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: the original dunson on May 26, 2006, 08:48:03 AM
(I have a newfound respect for Dunson.)

 ;D ;D ;D ;D

(I have a newfound respect for Dunson.)

Ditto.  Except maybe not so newfound.  Just growing.

 ;D ;D ;D ;D



Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: the original dunson on May 26, 2006, 08:49:21 AM

I don't see why we shouldn't be a bit obsequious.  We did oppress them for thousands of years.

I didn't do a darn thing to any woman except for treat her with respect and as an equal, because that's the way my mom and two older sisters taught me to treat them.  But to be subservient to a woman goes against everything that is man.

It's not about being subservient, it's about remembering that despite being equals (in theory at least) the modern woman still should be treated like a lady.  I mean things like getting up to get her the drink, not sending her to do it.  Little things matter.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on May 26, 2006, 08:55:56 AM
anyone ever actually dated a subserviant chcik?  i havent.  wonder what thats like....
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: the original dunson on May 26, 2006, 08:56:19 AM
Alright this is why I don't argue.  I suck at it.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: veg on May 26, 2006, 08:56:59 AM
Alright this is why I don't argue.  I suck at it.

You're winning you idiot.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: the original dunson on May 26, 2006, 08:57:36 AM
Alright this is why I don't argue.  I suck at it.

You're winning you idiot.


But I feel bad.  I'm too nice to argue. 
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: revelareveritas on May 26, 2006, 08:58:51 AM
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Alright this is why I don't argue.  I suck at it.


You're winning you idiot.
 
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Maybe you shouldn't become a lawyer then? ;)
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: veg on May 26, 2006, 08:59:04 AM
Alright this is why I don't argue.  I suck at it.

You're winning you idiot.


But I feel bad.  I'm too nice to argue. 

This is why I love you.
And seriously, you're in the right on this one. I'd wager that 99% of the women around here agree with me.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: the original dunson on May 26, 2006, 08:59:46 AM
Alright this is why I don't argue.  I suck at it.

You're winning you idiot.


But I feel bad.  I'm too nice to argue. 

This is why I love you.
And seriously, you're in the right on this one. I'd wager that 99% of the women around here agree with me.

Thanks dear.

Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: the original dunson on May 26, 2006, 09:00:02 AM
Don't desert us Dunson!

I would buy dinner too silly.   ;)
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: lsatflunkie on May 26, 2006, 09:00:37 AM
Alright this is why I don't argue.  I suck at it.

You're winning you idiot.


But I feel bad.  I'm too nice to argue. 

if i wasn't already married, I'd ask you to marry me right about now  :)
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: the original dunson on May 26, 2006, 09:01:19 AM
Alright this is why I don't argue.  I suck at it.

You're winning you idiot.


But I feel bad.  I'm too nice to argue. 

if i wasn't already married, I'd ask you to marry me right about now  :)

Haha

Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on October 03, 2006, 01:00:08 PM
bump
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on October 03, 2006, 01:18:23 PM
i should do one of these for the guys.

cause im thinking, i want at least 60% of the final say.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on October 03, 2006, 01:19:38 PM
and who on earth picked the top 2 choices?

db, was that you?

or maybce twas the cupcake.  she looks like a closet subbie...
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: dbgirl on October 03, 2006, 01:21:27 PM
and who on earth picked the top 2 choices?

db, was that you?

or maybce twas the cupcake.  she looks like a closet subbie...

Yes blue. It was me.
I really like a man to control my life.
Controlling men are hot.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on October 03, 2006, 01:26:07 PM
and who on earth picked the top 2 choices?

db, was that you?

or maybce twas the cupcake.  she looks like a closet subbie...

Yes blue. It was me.
I really like a man to control my life.
Controlling men are hot.


dont worry baby, id make it good for you.

db, clean this house.
db, cook my dinner
db, cash my check and spend it
db, lay back and prepare for heaven!   
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: dbgirl on October 03, 2006, 01:27:41 PM
and who on earth picked the top 2 choices?

db, was that you?

or maybce twas the cupcake.  she looks like a closet subbie...

Yes blue. It was me.
I really like a man to control my life.
Controlling men are hot.


dont worry baby, id make it good for you.

db, clean this house.
db, cook my dinner
db, cash my check and spend it
db, lay back and prepare for heaven!   

Keep it coming blue!
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on October 03, 2006, 01:38:21 PM
and who on earth picked the top 2 choices?

db, was that you?

or maybce twas the cupcake.  she looks like a closet subbie...

Yes blue. It was me.
I really like a man to control my life.
Controlling men are hot.


dont worry baby, id make it good for you.

db, clean this house.
db, cook my dinner
db, cash my check and spend it
db, lay back and prepare for heaven!   

Keep it coming blue!

its all about knowing how and what to control.   :-*

although, for the most part, should i ever get suckered (hehe) in2 marriage, i would prefer she hanlde the money/bills.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: fuwaf on October 03, 2006, 01:39:43 PM
Umm, no, not me.  I was probably in the 30-40 range.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on October 03, 2006, 01:41:52 PM
Umm, no, not me.  I was probably in the 30-40 range.

which way?

30 u, 70 him
60 you, 40 him?
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: fuwaf on October 03, 2006, 01:42:58 PM
Umm, no, not me.  I was probably in the 30-40 range.

which way?

30 u, 70 him
60 you, 40 him?

Fool, 30 him, 70 me

Or 40 him, 60 me
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on October 03, 2006, 01:44:35 PM
Umm, no, not me.  I was probably in the 30-40 range.

which way?

30 u, 70 him
60 you, 40 him?

Fool, 30 him, 70 me

Or 40 him, 60 me

Mr cupcake of doom?
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: fuwaf on October 03, 2006, 01:45:35 PM
 ::)
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: h2xblive on October 03, 2006, 01:48:30 PM
Umm, no, not me.  I was probably in the 30-40 range.

which way?

30 u, 70 him
60 you, 40 him?

Fool, 30 him, 70 me

Or 40 him, 60 me

oh dear!
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: fuwaf on October 03, 2006, 01:49:41 PM
Umm, no, not me.  I was probably in the 30-40 range.

which way?

30 u, 70 him
60 you, 40 him?

Fool, 30 him, 70 me

Or 40 him, 60 me

oh dear!

Oh, shutty.  You know you like it. ;)
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on October 03, 2006, 01:50:08 PM
Umm, no, not me.  I was probably in the 30-40 range.

which way?

30 u, 70 him
60 you, 40 him?

Fool, 30 him, 70 me

Or 40 him, 60 me

oh dear!

shes going to keep his nads in her purse.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: dbgirl on October 03, 2006, 01:52:54 PM
I honestly don't think there's a such thing as a 50/50 relationship - and I don't think I'd want one.
I dated a guy that literally kept tabs of nice things he'd do for me, so that I could do similarly nice things for him. YUCK.

Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: fuwaf on October 03, 2006, 01:53:08 PM
Umm, no, not me.  I was probably in the 30-40 range.

which way?

30 u, 70 him
60 you, 40 him?

Fool, 30 him, 70 me

Or 40 him, 60 me

oh dear!

shes going to keep his nads in her purse.

 ::) ::) ::)



i would say to the outside observer it probably looks like i drag my boyfriend around on a leash sometimes, but really he is the only person who can rein me in...

I think that's a good way of putting it.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: fuwaf on October 03, 2006, 01:53:39 PM
I honestly don't think there's a such thing as a 50/50 relationship - and I don't think I'd want one.
I dated a guy that literally kept tabs of nice things he'd do for me, so that I could do similarly nice things for him. YUCK.



 :o :o :o

Wow, that is really ridiculous.  I'm all for reciprocity, but that's taking it to another level.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: dbgirl on October 03, 2006, 01:54:00 PM
i would say to the outside observer it probably looks like i drag my boyfriend around on a leash sometimes, but really he is the only person who can rein me in...

There's nothing wrong with having a boyfriend leash.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on October 03, 2006, 01:54:03 PM
I honestly don't think there's a such thing as a 50/50 relationship - and I don't think I'd want one.
I dated a guy that literally kept tabs of nice things he'd do for me, so that I could do similarly nice things for him. YUCK.



that would be unpleasant.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: h2xblive on October 03, 2006, 01:54:24 PM
Umm, no, not me.  I was probably in the 30-40 range.

which way?

30 u, 70 him
60 you, 40 him?

Fool, 30 him, 70 me

Or 40 him, 60 me

oh dear!

Oh, shutty.  You know you like it. ;)

Yeah, I've always wanted to call you Mistress... :P
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: dbgirl on October 03, 2006, 01:56:21 PM
I honestly don't think there's a such thing as a 50/50 relationship - and I don't think I'd want one.
I dated a guy that literally kept tabs of nice things he'd do for me, so that I could do similarly nice things for him. YUCK.



that would be unpleasant.

He's up there on my worst boyfriends ever list (although, unfortunately there are a couple ahead of him).
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on October 03, 2006, 01:58:52 PM
Umm, no, not me.  I was probably in the 30-40 range.

which way?

30 u, 70 him
60 you, 40 him?

Fool, 30 him, 70 me

Or 40 him, 60 me

oh dear!

Oh, shutty.  You know you like it. ;)

Yeah, I've always wanted to call you Mistress... :P

HEHE, i shared my cupcake mistress fantasy i had on some thread...


I honestly don't think there's a such thing as a 50/50 relationship - and I don't think I'd want one.
I dated a guy that literally kept tabs of nice things he'd do for me, so that I could do similarly nice things for him. YUCK.



that would be unpleasant.

He's up there on my worst boyfriends ever list (although, unfortunately there are a couple ahead of him).


sheesh, how mnany bf's have you had?

triple digits?
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: dbgirl on October 03, 2006, 02:06:55 PM
Umm, no, not me.  I was probably in the 30-40 range.

which way?

30 u, 70 him
60 you, 40 him?

Fool, 30 him, 70 me

Or 40 him, 60 me

oh dear!

Oh, shutty.  You know you like it. ;)

Yeah, I've always wanted to call you Mistress... :P

HEHE, i shared my cupcake mistress fantasy i had on some thread...


I honestly don't think there's a such thing as a 50/50 relationship - and I don't think I'd want one.
I dated a guy that literally kept tabs of nice things he'd do for me, so that I could do similarly nice things for him. YUCK.



that would be unpleasant.

He's up there on my worst boyfriends ever list (although, unfortunately there are a couple ahead of him).


sheesh, how mnany bf's have you had?

triple digits?

I never really counted  :-\
But I had my first bf at 13, and until I met the current bf my relationships were all pretty short.
That allows for a lot of "We were totally into each other for a few months" sort of deals.  :-\


EDIT: I have not had as my bfs as blue suggests.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on October 03, 2006, 02:46:17 PM
ok, we had another for he totally controls my life

speak up and share!
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: h2xblive on October 03, 2006, 03:59:52 PM
How ironic is this, I'm starting to readThe Handmaid's Tale


 :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on October 03, 2006, 04:03:51 PM
how come the votes dont add up to the total?
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: Ever on October 03, 2006, 04:22:41 PM
how come the votes dont add up to the total?

How come your taking the time to count the votes?
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on October 03, 2006, 04:30:40 PM
how come the votes dont add up to the total?

How come your taking the time to count the votes?

it jumped out at me
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on October 11, 2006, 06:17:37 AM
bump
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on January 14, 2007, 05:36:10 PM
>:D
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: newme165 on January 15, 2007, 08:41:03 AM
I think the man should be in charge. I like to play my role.....10 me 90 him!!!
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on January 15, 2007, 10:27:24 AM
id say its more commn than you think.


and id be curious to see if the women that want the 70-30 there way would truly be happy with that...
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on January 15, 2007, 12:24:08 PM
i shouldnta added that option...

:-\
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on January 15, 2007, 12:30:32 PM
i shouldnta added that option...

:-\

why not?

cuase its a very non-controversial answer.

wanted people to pick something more towards one side or another.

plus, i doubt any relationship is truly 50-50.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on January 15, 2007, 12:37:49 PM
anything is possible....


course, not what i want  ;D
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on January 15, 2007, 12:43:49 PM
anything is possible....


course, not what i want  ;D

alright just for you blue:

I prefer having 100-0 (me) while still giving the illusion to my bf that he has 50-50.  better answer?

blech.

:P
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on May 31, 2007, 08:09:22 AM
me and one of my harem girls have been arguing over this recently...
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: dbgirl on May 31, 2007, 08:14:51 AM
 :D

There can be only one person in control.  That person will be DB.   :D
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on May 31, 2007, 08:15:55 AM
:D

There can be only one person in control.  That person will be DB.   :D

oh?

and how much control?
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: dbgirl on May 31, 2007, 08:17:59 AM
:D

There can be only one person in control.  That person will be DB.   :D

oh?

and how much control?

Oh, maybe 75-25.
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on May 31, 2007, 08:20:05 AM
:D

There can be only one person in control.  That person will be DB.   :D

oh?

and how much control?

Oh, maybe 75-25.

allow me to   ::)


now, how bout an option that was listed?
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: dbgirl on May 31, 2007, 08:21:43 AM
:D

There can be only one person in control.  That person will be DB.   :D

oh?

and how much control?

Oh, maybe 75-25.

allow me to   ::)


now, how bout an option that was listed?
Fine, 80-20.
Asking men for input on anything other than what shirt to wear is usually a bad idea, imo.  :P
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on May 31, 2007, 08:25:43 AM
:D

There can be only one person in control.  That person will be DB.   :D

oh?

and how much control?

Oh, maybe 75-25.

allow me to   ::)


now, how bout an option that was listed?
Fine, 80-20.
Asking men for input on anything other than what shirt to wear is usually a bad idea, imo.  :P

hmmm, when you look at the poll, 80-20 gives the man the control

woot woot, i knew you were a subbie!
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: dbgirl on May 31, 2007, 08:26:41 AM
:D

There can be only one person in control.  That person will be DB.   :D

oh?

and how much control?

Oh, maybe 75-25.

allow me to   ::)


now, how bout an option that was listed?
Fine, 80-20.
Asking men for input on anything other than what shirt to wear is usually a bad idea, imo.  :P

hmmm, when you look at the poll, 80-20 gives the man the control

woot woot, i knew you were a subbie!
:D
You keep believing that one blue.  ::)
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on May 31, 2007, 08:27:17 AM
thank you, i will  :)
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: GraphiteDirigible on May 31, 2007, 08:49:54 AM
How about options like this:

5% Man - 3% Women - 10% IRS - 10% Neighbors opinions of you - 40% Children's Needs - 38% Your respective boss's

Whaddyasay?
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on May 31, 2007, 08:51:16 AM
How about options like this:

5% Man - 3% Women - 10% IRS - 10% Neighbors opinions of you - 40% Children's Needs - 38% Your respective boss's

Whaddyasay?

dont care about neighbors
no kids
want to be my own boss

so, ummm, nah...
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: GraphiteDirigible on May 31, 2007, 08:56:21 AM
How about options like this:

5% Man - 3% Women - 10% IRS - 10% Neighbors opinions of you - 40% Children's Needs - 38% Your respective boss's

Whaddyasay?

dont care about neighbors
no kids
want to be my own boss

so, ummm, nah...

...then

5% Man - 3% Woman - 20% IRS - 20% Your Clients/Customers - 30% Your Financial Obligations for operating your own bidness - 10% Your tailor - 12% Your travel agent

or ...

90% Man - 10% TV
Title: Re: Women and Control
Post by: ->Soon on May 31, 2007, 09:01:39 AM
How about options like this:

5% Man - 3% Women - 10% IRS - 10% Neighbors opinions of you - 40% Children's Needs - 38% Your respective boss's

Whaddyasay?

dont care about neighbors
no kids
want to be my own boss

so, ummm, nah...

...then

5% Man - 3% Woman - 20% IRS - 20% Your Clients/Customers - 30% Your Financial Obligations for operating your own bidness - 10% Your tailor - 12% Your travel agent

or ...

90% Man - 10% TV

ok, that i can see...