As for the cutting up part...I swear. He had no problem with her cutting up when he was trying to get his cut. So he needs to man up because he is stuck with her cutting up for life. Not until the kid is 18 or out of college but life. So if she is showing her tail now she will be showing it down the line. Graduations, sports outings, etc. That is a excuse.
damn i went to the store for 5 minutes. "cutting up" = they can't have a civilized conversation because she constantly wants to argue. simple things like: him "what time should i pick him up?" her "what time have you been picking him up all of a sudden now you don't know what time" him "well you said they had a long practice this week so what time will they be done", her "what difference does it make if practice is long if you get there the same time you'll be there"...the women is mad because he's remarried and happy. when he was with her she had all these problems he wasn't this and that etc. etc. dogging him out to her hater girlfriends etc. etc. as for him deciding to quit paying one day, he's been paying all this time why would he stop the boy is 8 they were together for 1 year after he was born. the dude loves his son but his view is you took me to court to get x amount so that's what i'm giving you. when the boy is with him he gets him whatever but they stay at the house with him and his wife.
needs to man up and she
needs to woman up because I promise you that they
are not teaching their son any great lessons. They
are using that kid to get back at each other..because I will bet dollars to doughnuts the following happens...
He: Here son here is that (insert whateva) you wanted but you can only play with it here.
Son: Why I want to show (insert whateva) to my friends.
He: Sorry son only can play with it here.
Son: Plays but is disappointed when the weekend is over
Now Son goes home to this:
Her: So what did you do at Daddy's
Son: It was fine Dad got me (insert whateva)
Her: Where is it let me see
Son: He said I could only keep it at his house
Her: Blood pressure now up to stroke level
...oh he did did he? That blah blah son of a bytch.
Son: sitting there taking all of that hostile in..
Winner no one - Loser everyone involved...