I've found in my experiences that most black women are very loud and obnoxious. For the most part they seem to be rude, crude, and biyatches.
Well honestly I catch a lot of hell from black women..and even I am concerned say if I'm waking with someone from another culture and I get some stares it seems like I don't want to portray the whole "I'm not into sistas" thing but I like what I like.. I do see a point though in trying to preserve the african family unit. Black man, Black Woman etc.. But it seems I'm meeting a lot of brothers who only date white girls..and that pisses me off.
I think it speaks to the lack of cohesion in the black community. Dedication goes beyond the financial, political, and spiritual realm. It also includes relationships...relationships with the community. If you were to compare the percentage of black men who date outside their race to white men and hispanic men who do the same, you would see that the numbers are exponentially larger for black men. When you are proud of something, you take ownership of it. No, you cant help who you are attracted to but to use that as an excuse is inexcusable. I know a plethora of educated, sophisticated, and beautiful black women who are left twiddling their thumbs on a Saturday night because they refuse to settle for anything other than a black man. It would be nice if one day brothers would come to appreciate the fullness of the black woman and embrace her worth.
And finally, cause the BLACK in ME just has to be heard. A guilty conscience needs no accuser so if it bothers you this much...