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SFLSD: Oh! The inhumanities.

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Re: SFLSD: Shouldn't we all?
« Reply #53180 on: September 22, 2008, 08:17:19 PM »
My feelings class is starting to wretch feelings out me.

I don't like that.

Re: SFLSD: Shouldn't we all?
« Reply #53181 on: September 22, 2008, 08:17:59 PM »
What sort of feelings, Mu?

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Re: SFLSD: Shouldn't we all?
« Reply #53182 on: September 22, 2008, 08:19:49 PM »
Like constant dissatisfaction? 

What's funny is that we were just talking about feelings we don't like to feel very much, and my main one is "hurt."  Then my partner goes, "I thought you seemed really hurt the other time."

So I thought that maybe I should work on feeling "hurt."

Re: SFLSD: Shouldn't we all?
« Reply #53183 on: September 22, 2008, 08:26:37 PM »
How does that work?

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Re: SFLSD: Shouldn't we all?
« Reply #53184 on: September 22, 2008, 08:27:55 PM »
well, first you'd figure out when it was happening.

next, you would try to vocalize that instead of sending it away.

i dunno, really

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Re: SFLSD: Shouldn't we all?
« Reply #53185 on: September 22, 2008, 08:31:49 PM »
Is this law school or therapy?

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the idea is that you can better communicate and read needs and desires in client counseling/negotiations when you can 1) better understand yourself and 2) get more comfortable with reading others

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Re: SFLSD: Shouldn't we all?
« Reply #53186 on: September 22, 2008, 08:44:22 PM »
Is this law school or therapy?

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the idea is that you can better communicate and read needs and desires in client counseling/negotiations when you can 1) better understand yourself and 2) get more comfortable with reading others

AFAIC, this may be THE most important thing you ever learn for your career.


*A general "you".  Not just Mu, specifically.

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Re: SFLSD: Shouldn't we all?
« Reply #53187 on: September 22, 2008, 08:45:29 PM »
that's why I'm in it.  :)

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Re: SFLSD: Shouldn't we all?
« Reply #53188 on: September 22, 2008, 08:46:07 PM »
AFAIC, this may be THE most important thing you ever learn for your career.

Agreed.

Re: SFLSD: Shouldn't we all?
« Reply #53189 on: September 22, 2008, 08:53:04 PM »
well, first you'd figure out when it was happening.

next, you would try to vocalize that instead of sending it away.

i dunno, really

Away with you Hurt, away!   ;)

The vocalization has to be constructive/appropriately directed, right?  Not getting a job might hurt, but it hardly seems appropriate to vocalize that to whoever conducted the interview.  So do you vocalize to yourself then?  Hmm. 

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