hey, i know how u are feeling with the whole moving and boyfriend thing. But you know your boyfriend has lots of options in Austin. Alot of great companies have presence in Austin. And McCombs business school is highly regarded across the nation. I am recently married but luckly my husband is a software enginneer and his company has offices in every major city. Also, he is able to telecommute, so he gave me a green light to anywhere in the country. But it is totally understandable to put someone else in the picture as well.. but i agree with other posters, law school and distance can strain even the best relationships. I think he should consider moving down to austin. i'm a texan now living in DC and i'm hoping to go back to Texas! expecially austin. Its an awesome diverse city with great people, great sites and fun places, and best of all a wonderful school that will prepare you with an excellent education!Best of Luck!
Quote from: tonyp on January 03, 2007, 05:33:36 PMHm. I don't mean to be out of turn, but if he were indeed THE guy, wouldn't you want to be making life-changing decisions together based on each other's interests? No, It's a perfectly reasonable thing to say. But I've lived in New York too long and all of my girlfriends think we're nuts for still being together, let alone letting it *gasp* affect which law school I go to. A conversation yesterday "I mean, well, what if you find someone you like better at law school?"Right.I'm understandably confused. My parents aren't a decent source of advice either because I think they are a little p*ssed that we aren't at least engaged and we cohabitate. And Boyfriend himself doesn't want me to make a choice I regret and then he has to hear about for the rest of his life "I went to X school for you and I HATED it."All in all... I'm a confused panda.
Hm. I don't mean to be out of turn, but if he were indeed THE guy, wouldn't you want to be making life-changing decisions together based on each other's interests?
you should at least come visit austin. especially in feb/mar/april when its gorgeous