I haven't read the entire article, but are you saying thta you are going to have your kids participate in jack and jill?
Not necessarily Jack and Jill. It depends on where I end up and the resources in the area. Ideally I would like to live in a diverse neighborhood and for my kids to attend a
good, diverse, public school. Obviously this is easier said than done.
Barring that, I would find some way for them to interact regularly with other black children. It might be through church, a community group, children of my friends, or through a group such as jack and jill. I don't want my kids to arrive at a PWI that's 10% black and say that this is the most black people they've seen in their life.