Quote from: J-A-M-A-I-C-A on August 02, 2006, 11:20:56 AMno Inquirer, that's my pt, I wouldn't send my kids to DC public school. Unless I live in DC, they'll be in public school. I'm a product of a public school education, and I think I turned out pretty well. What is the reason to have your kids in programs like Jack & Jill, to expose them to black people? I'm sorry but I think that causes them to perpetuate the belief that black people are like them...privileged.I think there are two different issues here, making friends and giving back to the community. I want my kids to do both. In your previous post, all of your examples were about giving back (tutoring, helping the homeless, etc), but you never mentioned anything about being friends with 'regular' black people until maybe college.Kids can attend jack and jill and meet other 'privileged' black kids and attend church or volunteer with 'regular' black kids. A kid from a 'priveleged' background will probably identify more with another 'priveleged' black kid, so it's important that they have exposure to people from all walks of life.
no Inquirer, that's my pt, I wouldn't send my kids to DC public school. Unless I live in DC, they'll be in public school. I'm a product of a public school education, and I think I turned out pretty well. What is the reason to have your kids in programs like Jack & Jill, to expose them to black people? I'm sorry but I think that causes them to perpetuate the belief that black people are like them...privileged.
Oh okay, I guess I don't imagine the friends I have and the new friends I will acquire elite. Though we're all doing the damn thing none of us consider ourselves elite/privileged.
Irrespective of what you consider yourselves, you are or will be elite. And there are certain conventions that are difficult to pick up on if you're not regularly exposed to other people of your social class.
Like I said ya'll for each his own. One of my best friends (met in college) did Jack and Jill. I love her to death but she's pretentious as hell, out of touch with the black community, and a Republican She has very few black friends, and doesn't really know how to relate to them (would go as far as to say she thinks she's better than them).
Quote from: Learned Hand on August 02, 2006, 11:41:35 AMIrrespective of what you consider yourselves, you are or will be elite. And there are certain conventions that are difficult to pick up on if you're not regularly exposed to other people of your social class.Not true if you have good parents who make sure you don't act a fool and that you speak properly.
Yeah, good parenting is key. But I think there are some things you learn only by observing others in similar situations.
Ok I read the article in its entirety and one of the ladies had me when she said her son brought home a white girl Now if my son ever decides to do that, it better be because he's seen more than enough black women and none of them seem to meet his mamma's standards I don't know what kind of neighborhood my kids will end up in, but I'll try my darndest to find a better way to expose them to blacks other than J&J. But I guess if push comes to shove (i.e., son brings home a white girl).....
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