i would say tell them. even though they would want to be a part of the kid's life, there is the pacific ocean separating you from them. so it's not like they're going to be dropping by every weekend.is it just me or are korean parents even more rigid than other asian parents?
its so sad...how some parents are so incredibly generous to their children (my wife's parents are awesome), while others are just completely selfish and self-serving. i dont want my child to be a status symbol for them...am i a bad son for wishing them to hurry up and die? or am i justified in thinking that way?