Well... I don't know.. there are all kinds of teacher positions in NC... but she just started, literally, this week at a preschool here in Nashville and thus far loves it. So it's kinda like chasing my dream might in a way be causing her to forfeit hers...granted, there's other jobs... but I almost would feel kinda guilty trying to get her to give up on her first job straight out of undergrad...So many complications.
Before you start feeling guilty about trying to get her to move to NC, I'd just discuss it with her (or have you already?). She might be much more willing to make the move than you think. Good luck!
If you start jerking her around now, she'll start eyeing the pool boy soon.
You really seemed to like Vanderbilt. You're a bright person, and I don't think you'll see fewer opportunities out of Vandy than Duke, especially if you're not gunning for top NY BigLaw.Your wife must be taken into consideration too. This is too early in the marriage to start jerking her around. That must wait until you're well into your 40s and you drop the bomb o her that you're leaving her and the kids because you've been nailing your secretary for the past three years.If you start jerking her around now, she'll start eyeing the pool boy soon.