I highly recommend the getting out of state option. I left Chicago (and a ten-year on-and-off thing) for Texas, sulked for a year, then got together with my now-husband. Go west, young (wo)man! Or east, as the case may be. Loneliness can be empowering.
hopefully buy a little condo and get settled before school starts.
So Laurrk sounds like you and the bfriend are officially over. sucks.
My current house just went on the market - I am hoping to sell it by early June. That would give me about a month to screw around and a month to settle in. I may even have an offer this week (according to my realtor), if that is the case I may quit my job early and screw around for SEVERAL months.