Go to rutgers. It really is a no brainer. Rutgers has a better faculty and tuition is half the price. In the city, rutgers has a better reputation and in NJ they are practically equal. I also go to Rutgers--New Brunswick. but it really is a no brainer. Look at USNEWS rankings, look at where they say reputation and notice rutgers is .2-.4 higher than SH
Seton Hall has a better basketball team than Rutgers, And Rutgers football (although decent this year) is generally thought of as the laughing stock of the state.