And don't be offended, for goodness' sake: you can be wrong and still be an ok person. This isn't about you: it's about your position on this issue.
I'm through with this argument for now. You're rude and you've been wrong a few times, too. Have a nice night.
Quote from: Mr Shears on January 30, 2006, 07:05:30 PMQuote from: redemption on January 30, 2006, 06:54:05 PMAnd don't be offended, for goodness' sake: you can be wrong and still be an ok person. This isn't about you: it's about your position on this issue.Too many people take debates personally. It's hard to be an attorney - especially in litigation - when you take every argument as a personal attack.I hope you're not referring to myself; this is a message board, not lawyering. There's a difference in how one comports his/herself here as opposed to in one's career.
Quote from: redemption on January 30, 2006, 06:54:05 PMAnd don't be offended, for goodness' sake: you can be wrong and still be an ok person. This isn't about you: it's about your position on this issue.Too many people take debates personally. It's hard to be an attorney - especially in litigation - when you take every argument as a personal attack.
Also, for someone so concerned with how personal I've taken the argument, I really think it's ironic how many of her posts were about how I was taking the argument.ttfn.
Quote from: Mr Shears on January 30, 2006, 07:27:04 PMQuote from: kevdog161 on January 30, 2006, 07:16:30 PMQuote from: Mr Shears on January 30, 2006, 07:05:30 PMQuote from: redemption on January 30, 2006, 06:54:05 PMAnd don't be offended, for goodness' sake: you can be wrong and still be an ok person. This isn't about you: it's about your position on this issue.Too many people take debates personally. It's hard to be an attorney - especially in litigation - when you take every argument as a personal attack.I hope you're not referring to myself; this is a message board, not lawyering. There's a difference in how one comports his/herself here as opposed to in one's career.Not a very big one. If you can't even debate on a message board without taking everything personally, how do you expect to do it when you have fellow lawyers whose sole aim is to make you lose?I'd argue that I haven't taken this nearly as personally as you guys think I have. Further, the whole timeline about me getting worked up, cooling off, coming back and being personal is pretty inaccurate. I'd suggest reading back through her posts as well; she hasn't missed an opportunity to get in a personal jab here or there, and if she thinks I needed time to cool off, that's fine, but in reality, the times when I wasn't posting, I was either working or driving home from work.Also, for someone so concerned with how personal I've taken the argument, I really think it's ironic how many of her posts were about how I was taking the argument.ttfn.
Quote from: kevdog161 on January 30, 2006, 07:16:30 PMQuote from: Mr Shears on January 30, 2006, 07:05:30 PMQuote from: redemption on January 30, 2006, 06:54:05 PMAnd don't be offended, for goodness' sake: you can be wrong and still be an ok person. This isn't about you: it's about your position on this issue.Too many people take debates personally. It's hard to be an attorney - especially in litigation - when you take every argument as a personal attack.I hope you're not referring to myself; this is a message board, not lawyering. There's a difference in how one comports his/herself here as opposed to in one's career.Not a very big one. If you can't even debate on a message board without taking everything personally, how do you expect to do it when you have fellow lawyers whose sole aim is to make you lose?
I <3 AH.
honorary fellow LSD rodent.
not that i want to rile things up again (i think i effectively said my piece a while ago and no one seemed to refute it), but i just wanted to let magnum know ttfn means ta ta for now (think tigger in winnie the pooh.