I totally agree with Blk.
Aside from the fact that the KINKO's guy worked at KINKO's, he looked as though he was 18 or 19, AND he dissed me b/c I don't have a job.
I refuse to date men that are cashiers, etc. b/c I have found that when I do attempt to "give a brotha a chance," I end up frustrated and disappointed b/c we are worlds apart....
I'm concerned about graduating from law school...he's concerned about finding a cosigner for a car. I'm concerned about public policy and my 401K...he's concerned about the name of the vodka on tap and when he finds out its McCormick, he asks the waiter the cost of Henessey. Or my favorite…I use a word or two and he actually asks for the definition! Do you know how it feels to be the dictionary on a date??? The list goes on and on. PLUS, I seriously doubt a black professional man would want me if I were not goal oriented.
So yes...I will not date cashiers, men with bad credit, men that are not driven...etc. If I end up alone b/c of my standards, then so be it.