thats cool annabel...although maybe sometimes people don't start out knowing what they want, and then their ideas evolve? either way, good post...

and now, after this day-long lsd relationship interlude, i am going back to studying cause i don't have time for alla this silliness.

You know what this is? This is life. It's learning lessons, making mistakes and growing up.
You start of thinking that you know exactly what you want in a "mate". Then, through the process of elimination brought on by good and bad experiences, these ideas begin to evolve. And I don't think they will ever stop evolving. Throughout our lives we will constantly define and re-define what is important. Finding that "special someone" is wonderful, but the journey that leads you there is what defines you. So, enjoy the ride!
This moment brought to you by another caffeine induced Zen state 