What I'm having a hard time understanding (and this is where I need some perspective if this is normal) how a 36 year old married man with a child instantly becomes best friends with a 24 year old girl, becomes her study buddy, can't function without spending time with her, can't go to family functions without bringing her, has to go the bars to shoot darts with her until 3am at least 3x each week, takes her to get her car fixed, goes out to dinner with her every night without us, goes to the mall to buy winter coats together.... I could go on. I actually talked to her yesterday while my husband was driving them to dinner and suggested that we meet them and she flat out told me that wasn't a good idea... I could go on.
The reason I am asking this audience is because my husband says this is what all 1L students do and it's due to the stress he's under. Is this what all law students do?
Is this normal? Am I supposed to support this? Is this what I signed up for?
Quote from: u00p2j on October 21, 2009, 01:11:32 PMIs this normal? Am I supposed to support this? Is this what I signed up for?No. No. No.There are so many things wrong with your story; I don't know where to begin.You need to have a talk. The time your husband is spending doing anything other than going to class and reading is time that he chooses to spend with this other person over you and your child. This has nothing to do with 1L stress.