i am too in a position where, my husband makes enough for us to get by, but things are getting tight. i feel like such a loser.
i graduated with honors from a decent regional school in may; and there were no jobs anywhere if you werent a member of the good 'ol boys club....

so i moved to a larger market where i really didnt know anyone (sympathies to the OP) and it took me six months of busting my ass to get an offer. in the meantime i did odd jobs such as research and appellate work (which a lot of trial lawyers despise) on the cheap....
i also took 6 hours of class from a local U in something relatively simple to keep the student loan collectors at bay, and so i could live in graduate housing (also cheap).
i filled out at least two hundred apps and i cant tell you how many letters of interest; and i must have had around 30 interviews where i was told "we had over 200 applicants for one position, many of whom have been in practice for over 5 years" ...
the job market sucks.
i finally got an offer from a federal agency doing quasi-legal work; the money is decent, the benefits are good, and my student loans are being paid for me; better still they are also paying for me to start an llm in the fall as well as giving me some time off to study for the local state bar in july. i'm finally doing ok, but it was scary as hell for a while, to the point to where i had to borrow money to pay my rent

good luck to all of you who are still searching......