I am sorry for my part in this. FWIW, this is easier said than done, however, when you feel as if you're under siege.
Quote from: ISUCKATTHIS on June 11, 2009, 08:50:33 PM"What, exactly, was PILFOLO's viewpoint?"He called Miss P on her saying that I had "no standing" to disagree with her. He pointed out that she was really saying that I'm not sufficiently in the good graces of people like you and other followers to have the option to disagree with her. PILOFOLO also pointed out that P demonstrated that she didn't even understand the legal vocabulary she was using in one of her botched arguments. But the real question is: what was "the behavior that landed them in the ban zone in the first place?" So far, all you've said was that he 1) had the audacity to disagree with Miss P and 2) was not popular with other posters. That's really it?Earlier, I invited you to post PILOFOLO's offensive material so we could all understnd what gets you banned here. Why didn't you take me up on that?A few points of clarification:1. I have never said or implied that any poster was banned for disagreeing with any other poster nor has any poster, to my knowledge, ever been banned in the history of this website for such a weak reason.2. With regard to this particular poster, you stated that "He called Miss P on her saying that I had "no standing" to disagree with her." Clearly, I must have missed this conversation b/c I don't recall seeing any of that. (don't doubt it may have happened, but my attn was not drawn to it) 3. That's a fair request to ask what this poster in question did to avoid bans in the future. I don't have the time to go back and dig through my trash file to find the complaint links but suffice it to say, as a general rule, (i) spam, (ii) personal harassment and (iii) blatantly "shock the conscience" posts (ie. Porn, racial junk, etc.) are 3 sure fire ways to get banned. As I recall, this guy fell into category II.4. After receiving a few complaints re this poster and a few others involved in the same argument, I remember putting out a general warning to everybody. Something along the lines of "play nice" or words to that effect. I didn't take this poster's response personally as he/she doesn't know me and I certainly don't know them. I took this poster's response to indicate that they were not only going to completely disregard my warning, but that they had no respect for any future warnings as well. Once I see that a poster has no respect for the mods' requests to keep the peace, there's really no need to beat around the bush anymore after that. I'd just as soon ban the poster now as opposed to 20 complaints from now.
"What, exactly, was PILFOLO's viewpoint?"He called Miss P on her saying that I had "no standing" to disagree with her. He pointed out that she was really saying that I'm not sufficiently in the good graces of people like you and other followers to have the option to disagree with her. PILOFOLO also pointed out that P demonstrated that she didn't even understand the legal vocabulary she was using in one of her botched arguments. But the real question is: what was "the behavior that landed them in the ban zone in the first place?" So far, all you've said was that he 1) had the audacity to disagree with Miss P and 2) was not popular with other posters. That's really it?Earlier, I invited you to post PILOFOLO's offensive material so we could all understnd what gets you banned here. Why didn't you take me up on that?
"That said, whether one user uses or abuses the function isn't going to make the difference. Even if I repeatedly complained about posts just because their authors were Yankees fans, for instance, talking about it at any length would detract from the real purpose of this thread, which is to discuss how the moderators should respond if something like that happens."I disagree with you here. Sands indicated that one of the criteria he weighs when deciding whether or not to ban a poster, I believe, is when there are complaints against that poster. Then, complaints get a poster banned and Sands did not indicate that there is any verification or vetting of those complaints. In that case, abuse of the system does matter and can lead to stifling discussion. Posters can (and from what we've seen, do) complain about posters merely because they happen to disagree with those posters. In my opinion, that is not appropriate. Either the complaints should be vetted by the moderators, posters should not complain about others merely because they disagree with what they have to say... or both.In any event, it seems to me that one poster abusing the system can certainly make a difference in that context. Please explain to me why (or if) you disagree with me. I'm interested to hear your perspective.
That's cool how you referenced a case.
I'm so far from the end of my tether right now that I reckon I could knit myself some socks with the slack.
Quote from: ISUCKATTHIS on June 14, 2009, 11:19:04 PM"There was plenty of other stuff involved before he got banned."If that's true, then what was the other stuff? I asked Sands to post it (above) and he declined. If you have knowledge of the "other stuff" please post it so we can all understand what leads to banning here.Thanks, in advance.Incidentally, Sands post indicates that 1) complaints alone against this poster provided the basis for his banning 2) the last straw was this poster's snarky comment to Sands.I got that there were other factors from Sands' posts on the matter. For anything specific, you'll have to get it from him. It certainly isn't my responsibility to provide it, because I'm not a mod. Did he provide any reason for not discussing it with you?
"There was plenty of other stuff involved before he got banned."If that's true, then what was the other stuff? I asked Sands to post it (above) and he declined. If you have knowledge of the "other stuff" please post it so we can all understand what leads to banning here.Thanks, in advance.Incidentally, Sands post indicates that 1) complaints alone against this poster provided the basis for his banning 2) the last straw was this poster's snarky comment to Sands.
"we certainly haven't seen any sign that they do so merely because they disagree with the posts they're reporting"Again, I disagree. We have clearly seen that some posters use the complaint feature to silence those with whom they disagree. Further Sands, to the present, has not indicated that those complaints were ever reviewed and vetted. If they were, of course, that'd be acceptable. If they were, however, then why is it so difficult to get any information about the behavior that lead to the banning of this particular poster? All we know, and all the moderator has said, is that there were "complaints." There has been no indication that there was anything more. I agree with most of the remaining portions of your post, even if I understand their purpose as to further ingratiate yourself with Sands.
I'd say you know quite a bit. But, please, let's do away with the personal attacks. I know it's a reflex, but try to get it under control.