Wow I have never had the desire or ever asked any of my balck freinds if I could touch thier hair. <--- maybe I'm not a very good white guy freind?
Quote from: Matthies on July 28, 2008, 10:20:12 AMWow I have never had the desire or ever asked any of my balck freinds if I could touch thier hair. <--- maybe I'm not a very good white guy freind? lol. nope quite the opposite, believe me. dont ask! dont do! u r a good white guy friend! the exprience is not a good one for us...kinda lik being petted like a dog
Quote from: Burning Sands, Esq. on July 25, 2008, 04:40:49 PMHopefully you all caught this yesterday and the day before. If not they're re-airing this weekend.http://www.cnn.com/SPECIALS/2008/black.in.america/For those who saw it - Thoughts?To be honest I was quite disappointed with the woman one more than I was w/ the man one but I was disappointed in both. The woman one didn't have very much variety. Therefore I could see some intellectual making the argument that all the problems they were having could be explained by something other than race. But I think in all fairness I built it up in my mind too much before seeing it. They made it seem like it was going to be this groundbreaking thing...and it wasn't.Dyson and his bro was an interesting segment. Although I really couldn't get down with the whole dark skin light skin thing they were trying to do. Bit of a stretch.Quote from: doubledown on July 27, 2008, 01:56:22 PMQuote from: 7S on July 27, 2008, 12:38:23 PMI watched the first one on black women and was sorely disappointed so I skipped the one on black men. I guess the target audience wasn't black people in the slightest. I can say, though, since it aired, white people have been less afraid to ask to touch my hair. Ask? I went through a period in college where people felt the need to rub and or touch my head Every time I got it cut. Nothing peeved me more than that.Word 7S- at least you got asked! I wouldn't even know what to do with myself if I got asked. They just do. But it's slightly better than my own ppl yanking the crap out of my hair and asking me "is that weeve"?
Hopefully you all caught this yesterday and the day before. If not they're re-airing this weekend.http://www.cnn.com/SPECIALS/2008/black.in.america/For those who saw it - Thoughts?
Quote from: 7S on July 27, 2008, 12:38:23 PMI watched the first one on black women and was sorely disappointed so I skipped the one on black men. I guess the target audience wasn't black people in the slightest. I can say, though, since it aired, white people have been less afraid to ask to touch my hair. Ask? I went through a period in college where people felt the need to rub and or touch my head Every time I got it cut. Nothing peeved me more than that.
I watched the first one on black women and was sorely disappointed so I skipped the one on black men. I guess the target audience wasn't black people in the slightest. I can say, though, since it aired, white people have been less afraid to ask to touch my hair.
Quote from: Eugene Young on July 27, 2008, 08:25:18 PMQuote from: Matthies on July 27, 2008, 03:45:52 PMQuote from: Eugene Young on July 27, 2008, 02:15:09 PMQuote from: Dr. Derek Shepherd on July 27, 2008, 01:48:26 PMThe woman who hosted it was pretty hot, even though I'm not sure if she was black, white, Hispanic, Asian, or Middle Eastern. Soledad O'Brien. Quite fine. I remember reading somewhere that she's Cuban and Australian.Is she married to Miles O'Brien who used to be CNN's anchor? Nope. Coincidental. According to wikipedia, she's married to an I banker.http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Soledad_O%27BrienIf wiki's right, this is him http://www.tweisel.com/AboutUs/Leadership/investmentBanking/i feel like a stan.Damn and here I was thinking he was giving up to all us average looking white dudes that we too could marry up.
Quote from: Matthies on July 27, 2008, 03:45:52 PMQuote from: Eugene Young on July 27, 2008, 02:15:09 PMQuote from: Dr. Derek Shepherd on July 27, 2008, 01:48:26 PMThe woman who hosted it was pretty hot, even though I'm not sure if she was black, white, Hispanic, Asian, or Middle Eastern. Soledad O'Brien. Quite fine. I remember reading somewhere that she's Cuban and Australian.Is she married to Miles O'Brien who used to be CNN's anchor? Nope. Coincidental. According to wikipedia, she's married to an I banker.http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Soledad_O%27BrienIf wiki's right, this is him http://www.tweisel.com/AboutUs/Leadership/investmentBanking/i feel like a stan.
Quote from: Eugene Young on July 27, 2008, 02:15:09 PMQuote from: Dr. Derek Shepherd on July 27, 2008, 01:48:26 PMThe woman who hosted it was pretty hot, even though I'm not sure if she was black, white, Hispanic, Asian, or Middle Eastern. Soledad O'Brien. Quite fine. I remember reading somewhere that she's Cuban and Australian.Is she married to Miles O'Brien who used to be CNN's anchor?
Quote from: Dr. Derek Shepherd on July 27, 2008, 01:48:26 PMThe woman who hosted it was pretty hot, even though I'm not sure if she was black, white, Hispanic, Asian, or Middle Eastern. Soledad O'Brien. Quite fine. I remember reading somewhere that she's Cuban and Australian.
The woman who hosted it was pretty hot, even though I'm not sure if she was black, white, Hispanic, Asian, or Middle Eastern.
Quote from: 7S on July 28, 2008, 01:34:07 AMQuote from: cui bono? on July 28, 2008, 12:49:27 AMQuote from: Burning Sands, Esq. on July 25, 2008, 04:40:49 PMHopefully you all caught this yesterday and the day before. If not they're re-airing this weekend.http://www.cnn.com/SPECIALS/2008/black.in.america/For those who saw it - Thoughts?To be honest I was quite disappointed with the woman one more than I was w/ the man one but I was disappointed in both. The woman one didn't have very much variety. Therefore I could see some intellectual making the argument that all the problems they were having could be explained by something other than race. But I think in all fairness I built it up in my mind too much before seeing it. They made it seem like it was going to be this groundbreaking thing...and it wasn't.Dyson and his bro was an interesting segment. Although I really couldn't get down with the whole dark skin light skin thing they were trying to do. Bit of a stretch.Quote from: doubledown on July 27, 2008, 01:56:22 PMQuote from: 7S on July 27, 2008, 12:38:23 PMI watched the first one on black women and was sorely disappointed so I skipped the one on black men. I guess the target audience wasn't black people in the slightest. I can say, though, since it aired, white people have been less afraid to ask to touch my hair. Ask? I went through a period in college where people felt the need to rub and or touch my head Every time I got it cut. Nothing peeved me more than that.Word 7S- at least you got asked! I wouldn't even know what to do with myself if I got asked. They just do. But it's slightly better than my own ppl yanking the crap out of my hair and asking me "is that weeve"?lol. I guess "is that weave" is the black girl specific to "acting white."LOL and it pisses me of to no end when they assume that it is weave even when I tell them it's not. I always want to say "yep and these are my very own teeth too" LOL, they set us back a few decades!
Quote from: cui bono? on July 28, 2008, 12:49:27 AMQuote from: Burning Sands, Esq. on July 25, 2008, 04:40:49 PMHopefully you all caught this yesterday and the day before. If not they're re-airing this weekend.http://www.cnn.com/SPECIALS/2008/black.in.america/For those who saw it - Thoughts?To be honest I was quite disappointed with the woman one more than I was w/ the man one but I was disappointed in both. The woman one didn't have very much variety. Therefore I could see some intellectual making the argument that all the problems they were having could be explained by something other than race. But I think in all fairness I built it up in my mind too much before seeing it. They made it seem like it was going to be this groundbreaking thing...and it wasn't.Dyson and his bro was an interesting segment. Although I really couldn't get down with the whole dark skin light skin thing they were trying to do. Bit of a stretch.Quote from: doubledown on July 27, 2008, 01:56:22 PMQuote from: 7S on July 27, 2008, 12:38:23 PMI watched the first one on black women and was sorely disappointed so I skipped the one on black men. I guess the target audience wasn't black people in the slightest. I can say, though, since it aired, white people have been less afraid to ask to touch my hair. Ask? I went through a period in college where people felt the need to rub and or touch my head Every time I got it cut. Nothing peeved me more than that.Word 7S- at least you got asked! I wouldn't even know what to do with myself if I got asked. They just do. But it's slightly better than my own ppl yanking the crap out of my hair and asking me "is that weeve"?lol. I guess "is that weave" is the black girl specific to "acting white."
The noobs are so into themsleves you'd think they allready have offers at Tool, Tool, feminine hygiene product & Dumbass LLC
I'd agree that the bolded was a stretch if MED and his brother were trying to blame his dark complexion for his jail stay. I did not see them trying to do that at all. IMO, what they did was point out the different treatment that MED and his brother received from family and strangers they received because of their different complexions. Even in 2008, it's not uncommon for lighter skinned blacks to get preferential treatment within their own families. I'm friends with someone whose family is just like that--and pretty much uses the brown bag tests for her children's mates (though her children don't subscribe to that antiquated test). Having divergent treatment was not the sole cause of the brother's bad choices--and I don't think they said it as such. However, different treatment like that CAN have a negative effect on someone in some ways and that was what I got out of it.
That's cool how you referenced a case.
I'm so far from the end of my tether right now that I reckon I could knit myself some socks with the slack.
How is "stereotypicality" measured?
Good citation form, btw!
I suppose she corrected for things like degree of gruesomeness, gang affiliation, etc.