what i am saying is that if a guy just wants to be friends with me, which is fine, but there is a difference being friends with a girl, basically, some things just need to be sugar coated, and certain things that you say to a guy might be taken more offensively if u say them to a girl, for example, i went to a club with my firnd and his girlfriend, it was just the three of us when we were on vacation, so he decides he is going to go dance with his girlfriend and not find me again until 3 hours later (although i stood in the same spot the entire time), knowing that i was already trashed when we got there, and all by myself, now this might be okay if i wa a guy, that you could just leave me by myself for 3 hours, but it's different bc i am a girl
1. i do have friends that are girls, obviously, 2. i don't expect my guy friends to "paint their toenails and reading ym" come on now, that was a little bit of a stretch to back up the arguement you are trying to put forth
anyway, it really doesn't annoy me as much regularly, but when i am drunk, the annoyance is amplified, hence the reason why i posted this last night at 3:00 in the morning when i was drunk, bc i wouldn't noramlly make it a sober topic of conversation