By the way -- thanks for all the support yesterday. Break ups suck, but I'm starting to feel a bit better. I am still really sad about everything. I miss him. But we are friends (prob. friends with benefits, knowing us) and we're better off that way.... so ....
Asian girls don't believe in benefits??The way I see it -- going to school etc... I need to be my priority and I don't have time to @#!* around and find someone new to sleep with. There is too much drama and work involved in that. I don't like to sleep with people I don't love in some capacity (I did that too much in my early 20's and it's really unfulfilling). I want to be with someone who respects me, my inner and outer beauty and who loves me. The sex is better that way.Though he and I were not meant to be forever in a relationship or spend our lives together in a romantic capacity, he will always be my best friend. I know that he respects me, thinks I am beautiful and smart and wonderful and loves me for who I am. So why not take advantage of that and fulfill my sexual needs?I don't want another boyfriend right now. I want friends in my life I can trust and count on. And if I end up in bed with one of them, then so much the better. I don't need the let down of a one night stand, the stress or worry of a new relationship, the stress or worry of the last relationship ...But I do need to be told I'm beautiful (call me superficial, but I like that), have good conversations, good sushi and a great @#!* on a frequent and somewhat regular basis.So -- the best of all worlds.
Quote from: IrishGeisha on June 17, 2004, 02:02:08 PMAsian girls don't believe in benefits??The way I see it -- going to school etc... I need to be my priority and I don't have time to @#!* around and find someone new to sleep with. There is too much drama and work involved in that. I don't like to sleep with people I don't love in some capacity (I did that too much in my early 20's and it's really unfulfilling). I want to be with someone who respects me, my inner and outer beauty and who loves me. The sex is better that way.Though he and I were not meant to be forever in a relationship or spend our lives together in a romantic capacity, he will always be my best friend. I know that he respects me, thinks I am beautiful and smart and wonderful and loves me for who I am. So why not take advantage of that and fulfill my sexual needs?I don't want another boyfriend right now. I want friends in my life I can trust and count on. And if I end up in bed with one of them, then so much the better. I don't need the let down of a one night stand, the stress or worry of a new relationship, the stress or worry of the last relationship ...But I do need to be told I'm beautiful (call me superficial, but I like that), have good conversations, good sushi and a great @#!* on a frequent and somewhat regular basis.So -- the best of all worlds.P I M P
Who is the PIMP?
Quote from: thechoson on June 17, 2004, 02:04:41 PMQuote from: IrishGeisha on June 17, 2004, 02:02:08 PMAsian girls don't believe in benefits??The way I see it -- going to school etc... I need to be my priority and I don't have time to @#!* around and find someone new to sleep with. There is too much drama and work involved in that. I don't like to sleep with people I don't love in some capacity (I did that too much in my early 20's and it's really unfulfilling). I want to be with someone who respects me, my inner and outer beauty and who loves me. The sex is better that way.Though he and I were not meant to be forever in a relationship or spend our lives together in a romantic capacity, he will always be my best friend. I know that he respects me, thinks I am beautiful and smart and wonderful and loves me for who I am. So why not take advantage of that and fulfill my sexual needs?I don't want another boyfriend right now. I want friends in my life I can trust and count on. And if I end up in bed with one of them, then so much the better. I don't need the let down of a one night stand, the stress or worry of a new relationship, the stress or worry of the last relationship ...But I do need to be told I'm beautiful (call me superficial, but I like that), have good conversations, good sushi and a great @#!* on a frequent and somewhat regular basis.So -- the best of all worlds.P I M Pi believe i will bow out at this time to a true pimp...the last time i tried to do friends with benefits my right hand wouldnt talk to me for a week...but then on a serious note isnt there question of respect? i dunno maybe im being too romantic and someone should kick my @$$ and shove some free cootch in my face
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