but guys, i don't think all women are like that. if you meet a girl and thats what she's about, you have to let it go, even if you like her. i've met guys that i think are cool, and one or two have said things like, oh i'm too bad for you or something like that. and i say, ok, cool. i think maya angelou said something like when people tell you who they are then believe them. i know some signals have to have let you know they were about creating conflict and drama...