So i heard through the grapevine that this girl liked me. She began to hang out in my room, we would talk for hours, I really enjoyed it and I began to have feelings for her. The problem is, I'm kinda shy and never acted on this (never asked her out, or let on that I liked her), but we have only been talking for a few weeks. So here we are with only 5 days until the end of the school year, and she is going back home (hundreds of miles away) for the summer. Things just don't feel the same between us anymore though...it seems like there isn't as much tension (maybe cause I'm way more comfortable around her now). I don;t find her blushing, sitting close to me, or any of those things anymore. I'm starting to wonder if maybe I waited to long to make a move on her, and maybe she has lost interest in me as something more than a friend? I'm thinking of telling her about my feelings in a few days (right before we get out for summer), or at the very least getting her phone # and asking her "if she want's to hang out when she gets back in the fall". We live in the same dorm, so I don't have any of her info (ya i know im dumb). Do you think it's possible that I messed this up by not really letting her know my feelings for her?? What do you guys think I should do?
don't sweat it. understandably you're kinda shy and a little nervous to put everything out on the table. but just say to yourself, "whats the worse that can happen? if she rejects me, its not like shes gonna kick my ass or anything. i know she likes me. of course she'll say yes!"call her tonight and say "hi" to your future girlfriend for us.
If you weren't letting on that you liked her, maybe she just figured that all her flirting with you (sitting really close to you etc.) was not working and that you weren't interested, so she backed off.Quit playing hard to get, and ask her out already. Girls love being asked out. And you're not asking her to be your steady gf or to marry you or anything. Just a date. No big deal. To use an appropriate cliche, just do it!