I've been with my bf for coming up on a year and a half now. We're really lucky because I think we found each other at really good times in our lives. I'm taking two years off before ls, which is just enough time for him to finish his degree here in boston (he took time off before undergrad). My 1L will be his last semester. We want to get married and spend the rest of our lives together, so we're doing the application process together. He's more than willing to move, since he'll be ready for a new job and he's been at the one he's at now for so long mostly for the flexibility it gives him for school. We're going over potential places we'd like to move, and if I like the ls in the area, I'll apply. I'm also looking at schools that I like, and then looking at the areas they're in, and he considers if he'd be happy there.
Like any commited relationship, and what you'll eventually have to do when you have a spouse, believe it or not, is to compromise and come to decisions that make the BOTH of you as happy as possible. If this means breaking up to reach for dreams, long distance relationships, or relocating to be with someone, so be it. Every couple is different, and each person has their own issues they can't compromise on. I'm just lucky to have a man that supports my dream as though its his own, and is excited to help me along with it.