deep breath, angelus.
be cool. I think your prob may be that you try TOO hard. Just be a little more laid back, bro. You seem like an intelligent guy. Just hang. Give off a mysterious vibe. Let them come to you. When they do, you show them you are a witty, funny, articulate, intelligent guy.
Leave them wanting more. YOU take off first, not them.
just .02 from a guy who's been there. That approach is what worked for me.
this is an earlier post in response to you, angelus. NOTICE HOW I WAS TRYING TO HELP OUT YOUR PATHETIC ASS??
and then you start in on me, like I'm an a-hole.