honestly i don't think that's it at all... people that hide behind that as a reason typically date the
wrong black woman that perpetuates the stereotypes that you're speaking of..
they then choose to date a woman of a different race because they feel that she's better accommodating to their needs or their weaknesses...
ie i'm not going to enter a relationship with a man who's sitting on his ass doing nothing for a living (with no intention of changing that) just because he's attractive.. whereas a woman of a different race may be smitten by his looks...
i think that the question was a good one though rbg.. it's just like black women saying
there are no good black men out there.. when in fact there are many...
Do you think the reason why black men marry outside their race more than black women has something to do with common personality traits that black women share? ie is something wrong with you people?