Recently, I received my She Who Shops. So far, it's okay, but there's one thing that I don't dig at all. There appears to be an unspoken assumption throughout the book in the eyes of the main character that a light skinned black woman with long straight hair is the epitome of a beautiful black woman. Now don't get me wrong, I've read plenty of books where the main character has that perspective, but it is always clearly acknowledged that that's their individual perspective, and (usually) subsequently goes into depth about the derivatives of that perspective. However, the main character in this book hasn't done that, at least not just yet, but rather just assumes that image is universal. This is despite the fact that every other page is talking about the main characters woes of not being beautiful because she isn't light skinned with long straight hair, which is allegedly a "gift." That mess just burns me up , but I won't put the book down just yet
Quote from: Fabyahluss on June 04, 2005, 01:50:07 AMRecently, I received my She Who Shops. So far, it's okay, but there's one thing that I don't dig at all. There appears to be an unspoken assumption throughout the book in the eyes of the main character that a light skinned black woman with long straight hair is the epitome of a beautiful black woman. Now don't get me wrong, I've read plenty of books where the main character has that perspective, but it is always clearly acknowledged that that's their individual perspective, and (usually) subsequently goes into depth about the derivatives of that perspective. However, the main character in this book hasn't done that, at least not just yet, but rather just assumes that image is universal. This is despite the fact that every other page is talking about the main characters woes of not being beautiful because she isn't light skinned with long straight hair, which is allegedly a "gift." That mess just burns me up , but I won't put the book down just yetI KNOW!!! I really liked the book but the main character seemed to have a lot of "color" issues that weren't really resolved or at least explored in detail by the author.
For the business savvy...My dad gave me all of these books to read and they were pretty damn good.1. Jack- Go With Your Gut2. The Millionaire Next Door3. The Richest Man in Babylon4. Lee Iacocca's Autobiography5. The Warren Buffett Way6. Buffett7. 7 Habits of Highly Effective People8. Retire Young, Retire Rich9. Rich Dad, Poor Dad10. Masters of The Universe: The 10 Greatest Dealmakers of All Time11. Taking Yourself To The Top12. The 20 Characteristics of A Powerful Leader13. The Millionaire Mind14. The Art of War15. How To Invest In Apartment Buildings16. The Principles of Real Estate.....
Yes I've read all the books I listed. I need more to read since I have a 14hr flight on monday.