i think that, barring very rare exceptions, a non-marital relationship should not dictate where one goes to school. i just can't see the sense in it, and have heard far too many "i went there to be with him/her and i hate myself for doing it" stories.maybe i've been listening to my mother too closely lately, but if it's meant to be, it will be
I don't plan on getting married anytime soon, and I'm 29. But then again, it also took me 6 months to admit my bf was my bf, so maybe I'm just a slow mover - like most guys. But I agree with OnePoint, you shouldn't let your bf/gf dictate where you should go to school. Love knows no boundaries, man Sorry, I couldn't even type that without cracking up.