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tortfeasor111

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BIG DILEMMA!!
« on: January 18, 2007, 09:53:29 AM »
Oh boy, where do I start?  During the fall semester, I had a class with a professor who enjoyed hanging out with her students after class.  She always invited students to meet up with her after class to discuss issues related to the course.  Anyway, one day she invited a gorup of students who stayed after class one day to accompany her to a local bar/restaurant.  There were about five of us including myself.  We arrived at around 6, and we had a few drinks; soon the other students wound up leaving around 8 or 9.  My professor encouraged me to hang around a little while longer, and I did as we continued to drink.  Well about an hour later, we were both a little tipsy, her more than me.  Anyway, much to my surprise, she still didn't want the night to end, so she invited me back to her place to have some coffee.  Well long story short we wound up sleeping together.  I woke up immediately regretting this, and realized this presents a host of problems.  She wants to see me again.  I, however, do not want to see her again.  Unfortunately, I have her for a course this semester too; what are the chances?  I don't find her attractive and I shouldn't have slept with her in the first place.  I am aware of the total inappropriateness of her actions, and I suppose mine too.  I am also aware of how far fetched this sounds, but unfortunately it happened :(.  Anyway, I am worried about my grade if I tell her I do not want to see her again?  What do I do??  Also, I know that I was very stupid, so you don't need to tell me what an idiot I was.

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Re: BIG DILEMMA!!
« Reply #1 on: January 18, 2007, 10:04:20 AM »
suck it up and sleep with her the rest of the semester, enjoy your A+

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Re: BIG DILEMMA!!
« Reply #2 on: January 18, 2007, 10:20:49 AM »
Step 1 - Carefully document every incident
Step 2 - Continue taking her class and relationship w/o disturbance
Step 3a - Recieve an A in her class, then break things off
OR
Step 3b - Recieve less than an A and file a complaint with the school's ethics department
Step 4 - Write a screenplay based off of events...
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Re: BIG DILEMMA!!
« Reply #3 on: January 18, 2007, 12:03:09 PM »
Oh boy, where do I start?  During the fall semester, I had a class with a professor who enjoyed hanging out with her students after class.  She always invited students to meet up with her after class to discuss issues related to the course.  Anyway, one day she invited a gorup of students who stayed after class one day to accompany her to a local bar/restaurant.  There were about five of us including myself.  We arrived at around 6, and we had a few drinks; soon the other students wound up leaving around 8 or 9.  My professor encouraged me to hang around a little while longer, and I did as we continued to drink.  Well about an hour later, we were both a little tipsy, her more than me.  Anyway, much to my surprise, she still didn't want the night to end, so she invited me back to her place to have some coffee.  Well long story short we wound up sleeping together.  I woke up immediately regretting this, and realized this presents a host of problems.  She wants to see me again.  I, however, do not want to see her again.  Unfortunately, I have her for a course this semester too; what are the chances?  I don't find her attractive and I shouldn't have slept with her in the first place.  I am aware of the total inappropriateness of her actions, and I suppose mine too.  I am also aware of how far fetched this sounds, but unfortunately it happened :(.  Anyway, I am worried about my grade if I tell her I do not want to see her again?  What do I do??  Also, I know that I was very stupid, so you don't need to tell me what an idiot I was.

I don't believe your story.

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Re: BIG DILEMMA!!
« Reply #4 on: January 18, 2007, 12:19:53 PM »
I agree with landrover, but if it is true, it is fantastic! 


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Re: BIG DILEMMA!!
« Reply #5 on: January 18, 2007, 01:47:20 PM »
I love you for posting this story. I don't care if it's bull. This is the stuff of great porn.

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Re: BIG DILEMMA!!
« Reply #6 on: January 18, 2007, 01:52:15 PM »
I would simply tell her you aren't interested because you need to concentrate on your studies.  If she gives you *&^% over it or tries to mess with your grade, tell the administration. 

I doubt this will occur.  She needs her job way more than she needs a piece from you, and was probably trying to see if she could have a little fun with you without any repercussions.

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Re: BIG DILEMMA!!
« Reply #7 on: January 18, 2007, 02:27:49 PM »
Step 1 - Carefully document every incident
Step 2 - Continue taking her class and relationship w/o disturbance
Step 3a - Recieve an A in her class, then break things off
OR
Step 3b - Recieve less than an A and file a complaint with the school's ethics department
Step 4 - Write a screenplay based off of events...
;)

I like the way you think.

Another option:

1) Agree to see her again
2) Borrow friend's video camera (assuming you don't already have one)
3) Record the tryst for posterity
4) Post it on YouTube
5) Come back here and link it

Bonus points for audio!  :-*
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Re: BIG DILEMMA!!
« Reply #8 on: January 18, 2007, 02:52:46 PM »
Oh boy, where do I start?  During the fall semester, I had a class with a professor who enjoyed hanging out with her students after class.  She always invited students to meet up with her after class to discuss issues related to the course.  Anyway, one day she invited a gorup of students who stayed after class one day to accompany her to a local bar/restaurant.  There were about five of us including myself.  We arrived at around 6, and we had a few drinks; soon the other students wound up leaving around 8 or 9.  My professor encouraged me to hang around a little while longer, and I did as we continued to drink.  Well about an hour later, we were both a little tipsy, her more than me.  Anyway, much to my surprise, she still didn't want the night to end, so she invited me back to her place to have some coffee.  Well long story short we wound up sleeping together.  I woke up immediately regretting this, and realized this presents a host of problems.  She wants to see me again.  I, however, do not want to see her again.  Unfortunately, I have her for a course this semester too; what are the chances?  I don't find her attractive and I shouldn't have slept with her in the first place.  I am aware of the total inappropriateness of her actions, and I suppose mine too.  I am also aware of how far fetched this sounds, but unfortunately it happened :(.  Anyway, I am worried about my grade if I tell her I do not want to see her again?  What do I do??  Also, I know that I was very stupid, so you don't need to tell me what an idiot I was.

I don't believe your story.


Yea, I don't blame you.  I honestly can't believe that it happened myself.  Though I'd like to to tell my friends, I can't tell anyone, because who knows what would happen if this got out.  I appreciate everyone's advice, I'm just going to tell her I'm not interested (she's not attractive or young), and hope that's the end of it.

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Re: BIG DILEMMA!!
« Reply #9 on: January 18, 2007, 03:05:23 PM »

Yea, I don't blame you.  I honestly can't believe that it happened myself.  Though I'd like to to trll my friends, I can't tell anyone, because who knows what would happen if this got out.  I appreciate everyone's advice, I'm just going to tell her I'm not interested (she's not attractive or young), and hope that's the end of it.

OK. How young (give us an approximate age) and how attractive (on a scale from 1 to 10)? Oh, and did you wake up at her place or yours? Oh, and also, when you went back for "coffee" did you actually have coffee or did she just tear into you?

Thank you.