I think the big difference I'm seeing here is the "killing her" argument vs. the "right to die" argument. Those that say she should be fed say that she is "being killed," and those that say pull out the tube say "let her die."
I don't know that there's any getting over this--either you believe the husband or you don't. I personally don't know anyone who would want to be in a vegetative state for 15 years, religious or not. But I'm familiar with a parents' love, so I can see how this has become so protracted. And hey, maybe Terri wanted this.
I think it's interesting that our little poll in here pretty much mimics those taken by-and-large as well! Little microcosm, we are. This is one of those cases where your heart ends up arguing with your brain, ad infinitum.
I don't think the federal courts are gonna let this one fly.