Hey don't be too tough on TBone. He's going through what all of us do (excepting you Pookie, and that is meant as a compliment). Everyone of us can't believe why X isn't working out for us...and everyone here is saying the same things to themselves...TBone was just honest (and a bit rude) to air these thoughts out loud.
People only get nasty when they are having a rough time. TBone needs a group hug, not to be flamed (warning to future people, you're perfectly correct Pookie).