Not trying to be diplomatic, just tired of seeing women always tearing each other down. There's no reason for that. Of course we're not all going to get along but attacking each other's character will get us no where, and this applies to all women, but especially to black women. If we're going to argue over some *&^%, let's argue over the validity of each other's points. I often wonder why this plague is so prevelant between black women, a friend threw out the idea it's b/c we find ourselves in the minority, b/c our society is so male dominant. It would be interesting to see what other ladies think.