When you gave your personal example, you stopped talking in abstracts and invited the criticism. I like a good debate, and you gave me a good one, Tex. I hope you don't harbor any ill will, because I don't.
fair enough. i read a certain condescending "you don't know this yet, but you will" tone to which i was objecting,
since i don't think it's reconcilable with the "every relationship is different-- to each his own" sentiment expressed here.
Oh, i should add... I didn't see anything wrong with your original post with Ruskie
You DO tell her she looks hot when she dresses up for you though, right? Please say yes.