I'm also in the same boat as you, Jacy. We're actually planning to get engaged soon but since she is still in school we will probably wait until after my 2nd year of law school to get married. I see you're applying to UNC and Wake as well, so maybe you'll know someone at LS who understands your situation.
Good points about the "family" housing. It almost makes me with my bf and I were married before school, instead of after, since I am a little worried about him having a "support group" to deal with me being in law school. But then I remember that he's really great at meeting people and making friends, so hopefully things will go smoothly.And this is totally off topic, but I feel like it might be a little easier for married couples to survive law school. Since I'm in a serious relationship, but not engaged/married yet, I don't quite know if I'll feel like I "fit in" with other married law students. Likewise, I definitely don't fit the more common "let's go out and get drunk and hook up" single law students. So I hope there's plenty of other people like me out there, who are sort of in-between.