Quote from: Poetgirl80 on March 20, 2008, 09:59:22 AMA) "Younger" is ok... 22 is not. I am mature and worldly-- and I'm in a different place in my life. I don't take shots at the bar anymore; I sip wine at home with friends. I'm SURE there are those 'young-uns' who do the same, but that's not the norm. Additionally, I'm no longer physically ATTRACTED to the baby-faced early 20s guys. B) Contrary to speculation... I am hot :-)a) you'd be attracted to meb) you're alrighteta: a1) if you have to say you're mature and worldy, you're not.
A) "Younger" is ok... 22 is not. I am mature and worldly-- and I'm in a different place in my life. I don't take shots at the bar anymore; I sip wine at home with friends. I'm SURE there are those 'young-uns' who do the same, but that's not the norm. Additionally, I'm no longer physically ATTRACTED to the baby-faced early 20s guys. B) Contrary to speculation... I am hot :-)
Quote from: Poetgirl80 on March 20, 2008, 10:16:22 AMI was simply refering to posting a picture to prove that I'd be attracted to you...i'm at work right now, but maybe if you're lucky i'll pm you one when i get home.
I was simply refering to posting a picture to prove that I'd be attracted to you...
How would you know whether you have already or not? Wedding rings come off, people lie..... My way is more honest
Quote from: BearlyLegal on March 20, 2008, 10:21:09 AMQuote from: falkies on March 20, 2008, 10:14:22 AMHow would you know whether you have already or not? Wedding rings come off, people lie..... My way is more honestBecause I have never had a one night stand. I'm no prude, but I get to know the people I hook up with. People can be as sexual as they want for all I care, but Marriage is just a wall that I don't want to break.Agreed, Bearly. I've never been part of cutting in on a relationship of any kind, let alone a marriage. I just don't think it's right to blame the person the husband is cheating with when it's ultimately the husband's decision to cheat.
Quote from: falkies on March 20, 2008, 10:14:22 AMHow would you know whether you have already or not? Wedding rings come off, people lie..... My way is more honestBecause I have never had a one night stand. I'm no prude, but I get to know the people I hook up with. People can be as sexual as they want for all I care, but Marriage is just a wall that I don't want to break.
Quote from: BearlyLegal on March 20, 2008, 10:27:55 AMQuote from: IrrX on March 20, 2008, 10:24:01 AMQuote from: BearlyLegal on March 20, 2008, 10:21:09 AMQuote from: falkies on March 20, 2008, 10:14:22 AMHow would you know whether you have already or not? Wedding rings come off, people lie..... My way is more honestBecause I have never had a one night stand. I'm no prude, but I get to know the people I hook up with. People can be as sexual as they want for all I care, but Marriage is just a wall that I don't want to break.Agreed, Bearly. I've never been part of cutting in on a relationship of any kind, let alone a marriage. I just don't think it's right to blame the person the husband is cheating with when it's ultimately the husband's decision to cheat.It totally is. Primary blame lays there... But Falkies comments made it sound like she specifically targets people who may be having marriage problems because they are "nicer" to her. I just don't think that's cool. Sorry.Meh. That still doesn't make a difference to me. If the guy has stones and respects his wife and his marriage, he won't cheat no matter how much temptation there is. My dad cheated plenty, and I never blamed the women he cheated with.
Quote from: IrrX on March 20, 2008, 10:24:01 AMQuote from: BearlyLegal on March 20, 2008, 10:21:09 AMQuote from: falkies on March 20, 2008, 10:14:22 AMHow would you know whether you have already or not? Wedding rings come off, people lie..... My way is more honestBecause I have never had a one night stand. I'm no prude, but I get to know the people I hook up with. People can be as sexual as they want for all I care, but Marriage is just a wall that I don't want to break.Agreed, Bearly. I've never been part of cutting in on a relationship of any kind, let alone a marriage. I just don't think it's right to blame the person the husband is cheating with when it's ultimately the husband's decision to cheat.It totally is. Primary blame lays there... But Falkies comments made it sound like she specifically targets people who may be having marriage problems because they are "nicer" to her. I just don't think that's cool. Sorry.
Quote from: BearlyLegal on March 20, 2008, 10:37:18 AMQuote from: IrrX on March 20, 2008, 10:30:47 AMQuote from: BearlyLegal on March 20, 2008, 10:27:55 AMQuote from: IrrX on March 20, 2008, 10:24:01 AMQuote from: BearlyLegal on March 20, 2008, 10:21:09 AMQuote from: falkies on March 20, 2008, 10:14:22 AMHow would you know whether you have already or not? Wedding rings come off, people lie..... My way is more honestBecause I have never had a one night stand. I'm no prude, but I get to know the people I hook up with. People can be as sexual as they want for all I care, but Marriage is just a wall that I don't want to break.Agreed, Bearly. I've never been part of cutting in on a relationship of any kind, let alone a marriage. I just don't think it's right to blame the person the husband is cheating with when it's ultimately the husband's decision to cheat.It totally is. Primary blame lays there... But Falkies comments made it sound like she specifically targets people who may be having marriage problems because they are "nicer" to her. I just don't think that's cool. Sorry.Meh. That still doesn't make a difference to me. If the guy has stones and respects his wife and his marriage, he won't cheat no matter how much temptation there is. My dad cheated plenty, and I never blamed the women he cheated with.Like I said, primary blame def. is the cheater's. But...I'll tell you what, if some dude goes out of his way to try to seduce my wifewhen he knows she is married, I will kick his ass and feel justified for doing it. That's why I wouldn't do it to someone else. Golden rule, you know?I wouldn't kick anyone's ass for seducing my wife. Seduction is nothing unless it leads somewhere, then the whole thing is on her for giving in. I'd be pissed that the situation happened, and I would resent the guy for f-ing my wife, but all of the fault would be directed at her and no amount of tears or apologies would ever fix it. But then, in every relationship I've ever been in when things have gotten serious (I'm like you--I don't dig one-night stands), we've discussed the "I won't cheat on you, respect me enough to end the relationship before moving on" talk, and it's worked out well.
Quote from: IrrX on March 20, 2008, 10:30:47 AMQuote from: BearlyLegal on March 20, 2008, 10:27:55 AMQuote from: IrrX on March 20, 2008, 10:24:01 AMQuote from: BearlyLegal on March 20, 2008, 10:21:09 AMQuote from: falkies on March 20, 2008, 10:14:22 AMHow would you know whether you have already or not? Wedding rings come off, people lie..... My way is more honestBecause I have never had a one night stand. I'm no prude, but I get to know the people I hook up with. People can be as sexual as they want for all I care, but Marriage is just a wall that I don't want to break.Agreed, Bearly. I've never been part of cutting in on a relationship of any kind, let alone a marriage. I just don't think it's right to blame the person the husband is cheating with when it's ultimately the husband's decision to cheat.It totally is. Primary blame lays there... But Falkies comments made it sound like she specifically targets people who may be having marriage problems because they are "nicer" to her. I just don't think that's cool. Sorry.Meh. That still doesn't make a difference to me. If the guy has stones and respects his wife and his marriage, he won't cheat no matter how much temptation there is. My dad cheated plenty, and I never blamed the women he cheated with.Like I said, primary blame def. is the cheater's. But...I'll tell you what, if some dude goes out of his way to try to seduce my wifewhen he knows she is married, I will kick his ass and feel justified for doing it. That's why I wouldn't do it to someone else. Golden rule, you know?
<--- wants to see bearly's punky girl
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