Fiancee says kids or law school - pick ONE - advice please

[Majmun]

Get married. Have a baby. Change your mind. "I'm sorry, honey, but my heart is calling me to law school. We'll get a private bank loan to cover the living expenses for the next few years, and then we'll be just fine when I get out, cool?" What's she going to do? Walk away from you as a single mom? Why? Because you want to get more education and will eventually be better off financially? No. She'll stay. You'll have it all.  

ROFL

[Pigeon]

Basscadet, I'm glad to read that you dumped that broad.  She sounds like a real control freak and way too selfish for you to stick around her.

How dare anyone get in the way of anyone else's dreams.

Screw 'em.

[LegalMatters]

None of my classmates have gotten pregnant this year (that I know of) but plenty wives have given birth. You learn to make due I suppose but it sounds as if fiancee wants to stay home wih the kids and not work. I'd suggest a reality check with numbers to show her the financial hardship if she wants to go that route. Maybe she'll come around and see the practical investment that is a license to practice law.

[Ninja1]

OP: Dump the current woman and pick up a cool 22 year old. Problem solved.

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Just read some of the thread. Good work bro.

[jacy85]

I also don't think that a deception as you've prescribed in your last paragraph is ethical, no offense.

Ha! And you want to be a lawyer...
 

(kidding)

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It's no wonder you're not married.     Basing a marriage on a lie is a GREAT way to add to the divorce statistics.  Dumbass.

[1lstudent]

do both--have kids and go to law school at the same time.  I have a friend in the army and he had a baby before leaving for Iraq for a year.  If he can do it, you can do it!

[vjm]

You mean, if his wife/ partner can do it, don't you?