No kids here, ever. My husband just got a vasectomy. We had to wait until he was 25 which was kind of irritating. There are serious genetic issues in his family that he had a big chance of passing on to children, so we opted not to have kids but doctor after doctor told him he had to wait until he was 25. You wouldnt believe the things they say to you either-- well what if you were to divorce (said to me when I asked for an IUD). I understand them being thorough to protect themselves, however it is far easier to terminate a pregnancy than to prevent it.
My cat Bailey is a rescue and he is the best cat ever. He and my dog Bella are best friends (see 'tar) I am not sure if my dog thinks she is a cat or my cat thinks he is a dog but they sleep together, groom each other and beat the crap out of each other. They are the best companions ever.
During a LEOP chat I asked the director if the other students or professors knew who was in LEOP. She said they do not. I am sure some people figure it out if they see you attend the extra sessions or if you tell them ect. But I dont think there is a blinking sign that says-- Short bus here!!!