You may personally find it more 'honorable' to face up to the other person, but an anonymous contact is perfectly adequate.
I completely agree with that! I think contacting the person, and letting her
know that what you think she did is not right anonymously is perfectly fine. That way, you'll be really helping her
and not just looking out for your self interest.
Jesus Christ, you'd think this girl kills puppies from reading some of those posts. Things like that happen all the time in school and in the professional world. Life ain't fair, and sometimes you just have to let the little things slide.
Ofcourse, they do. That's why I'm so upset, when I wrote my previous post. I have encountered this before in various situations, I expect it, and (unfortunately) I have to adjust to it by being more mean and conniving than I would ever want to be. This is unfortunate though, which is why I may sound so upset. Another thing that really upsets me is that this kind of "back stabbing" is really predominant in American culture. I've been living here for a long time, I love this county, and this really makes me sad. I perfectly know (now) that this is the inexcapable reality, but it still makes me sad. I think it's not right, so that's why I wrote what I did. It's only my personal opinion. Feel free to disagree.