sorry about the "Guys like beauty, everything else is secondary." comment. yes I do require beauty but I also require a girl to be smart, honest, outgoing, funny, etc. Of course I care about the other traits. All I was saying is that even if you have ALL the other traits the most we could ever be is friends if you are not physically attractive. I do have ugly friends who I like for many reasons... but I would never date them.
Haha if those qualities weren't anywhere in your thoughts while you were doing the first post, it's a little hard to buy that being "smart, honest, outgoing, funny" is really that important to you. But nice try to make is PC and all.
But seriously if that's what you want, good luck too you. I would actually love it if guys who weren just trying to sleep with would leave me alone and go after someone young and frivilous who doesn't give a damn anyway. I mean to be honest I'm not interested in guys who would only like me if I were about 50 IQ points lower. I'm tired of random guys trying to feel me up on the dance floor and how 90% of the guys I meet can't even hold a conversation. You don't want ugly? Well I don't want idiots.
"I am tired of "educated" girls in med school, law school, etc thinking they should be desirable to men just because of their degree." Yeah where do those girls get off thinking that someone might actually like them for who they are and what they've done with their lives. I mean that's downright delusional.
Also what is with not wanting to date an equal. Honestly, why wouldn't you want to date someone who is going through the same thing as you are, is the same intelligence level, you know someone you have something in common with. I'm not saying its always necassary, but I can't imagine that being a turn off.