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Where should I go next fall? / Re: Decide my fate!
« on: May 30, 2005, 01:41:46 PM »
SGY:
I agree with virtually every one of your sentiments regarding Pittsburgh. But you might do well to notice what your first sentence does. It condescends. It sets forth a view of the good life as, by mere coincidence, that sort of life which you prefer. Again, I am pretty much in agreement with you that Pittsburgh is a great place to live, and provides for wonderful quality of life for many people. But those broadway plays, and those basketball games and those hipster clubs of NYC, or the powerful government hobknobbing and whatnot of DC, and painfully self-conscious coolness of SF are things which, in fact, many people desire. Perhaps they might change their mind later on after they "grow out of that phase." But your suggestion is that, until such a maturing process takes place, they are incorrectly pursuing the wrong lifestyle, or are motivated too much by image, or don't understand what really makes them happy, etc. Virtually anyone who has it explained to them that their preference set is incorrect with react defensively.
I understand that you are an advocate for a city you've recently come to love, and I applaud your enthusiasm. Pittsburgh needs it. But your advocacy would be much more successful with suggestive comments and not proofs of Pittsburgh's relative superiority. In other words, I recommend easing up on the slightly combative attitude and simply repeating one thing we both know. Pittsburgh is a city virtually nothing like what most people think of it. It's worth a visit.
Nonetheless, I also recommend Pitt, but more strongly recommend not trusting the outcome of this pole.
I agree with virtually every one of your sentiments regarding Pittsburgh. But you might do well to notice what your first sentence does. It condescends. It sets forth a view of the good life as, by mere coincidence, that sort of life which you prefer. Again, I am pretty much in agreement with you that Pittsburgh is a great place to live, and provides for wonderful quality of life for many people. But those broadway plays, and those basketball games and those hipster clubs of NYC, or the powerful government hobknobbing and whatnot of DC, and painfully self-conscious coolness of SF are things which, in fact, many people desire. Perhaps they might change their mind later on after they "grow out of that phase." But your suggestion is that, until such a maturing process takes place, they are incorrectly pursuing the wrong lifestyle, or are motivated too much by image, or don't understand what really makes them happy, etc. Virtually anyone who has it explained to them that their preference set is incorrect with react defensively.
I understand that you are an advocate for a city you've recently come to love, and I applaud your enthusiasm. Pittsburgh needs it. But your advocacy would be much more successful with suggestive comments and not proofs of Pittsburgh's relative superiority. In other words, I recommend easing up on the slightly combative attitude and simply repeating one thing we both know. Pittsburgh is a city virtually nothing like what most people think of it. It's worth a visit.
Nonetheless, I also recommend Pitt, but more strongly recommend not trusting the outcome of this pole.
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