« on: April 27, 2005, 03:32:12 PM »
I really feel for you and just wanted to give you some things to think about:
Obviously I don't know your relationship so a lot of this may not pertain to you:
1. This might not be finalized...four 1/2 years is a long time...I think it is a good idea that you put off making a decision until you are in a more positive frame of mind.
2. If, heaven forbid, things do not work out... you have to think that eventually you will have moved past it...are you still gonna be happy at Oklahoma...if yes then I would really think about taking the full ride...if no, then I might go to Vandy...I used to live in Nashville and it is a pretty fun place...you will meet new people and won't have all those painful memories to drudge up the past. Plus you will have all summer to be with your family in friends...if you had to leave tomm. I would say defn. stay in OK if it would make you happy.The reality is that in three months, you will still be hurting but you may be in a better place and ready to move on to something exciting.
Do what is best for you! I wish you the best of luck!