Unfortunately, LSD isn't the best board for this type of question.
I was thinking more along the lines of whether people are friends across racial lines. I think I'm going to drive down there again to look at the Ivy garden apartments and some other apartments. I'll take the time to walk around and think about whether I should have really sent my deposit to UVA. I guess I'm just nervous that people "keep to their own".
I wasn't going to pursue my waitlists/holds, but I am getting kind of nervous about living in Virginia. So, I might harass my city schools.