« on: February 26, 2007, 12:04:24 AM »
Meeting women is so much easier when you're on a self improvement kick.
I think you mean meeting women is much easier when you have actually improved. No one wants a project, right?
Pfff. Women live for fixer-uppers. It allows them invest effort at making the guy/relationship better, and thus feel validated by the improvement. That whole bit on wanting-what-they-can't-have reigns pretty true.
Which is why social retards with no dating options get sucked into a vicious cycle. They are so undesirable that they are willing to GIVE away their attentions and affections to any girl that will make eye contact with them. They do favors (like doing her homework or buying her meals/flowers) for women thinking that they will be REWARDED with her affections. This is BASS-ACKWARDS.
Flowers and dates are rewards to be earned. Same goes for compliments. Women don't want to be GIVEN compliments... any as$hole in a bar can say "you have pretty eyes." Women want to EARN and DESERVE compliments. The best ones are when you take special notice of something that she's went out of her way to do, either for herself or for you.
That's the end of the lesson for today.