« on: October 26, 2007, 12:43:20 PM »
You shouldn't read things into my answer that aren't there. I never said it was "the man's job" to do any of that. ANYONE who wants to cover their ass, guy or girl, should try to minimize the risk of getting into something that can turn extremely ugly. And a guy OR girl just looking for a f**ck buddy may end up in a tough situation when their f**ck buddy decides they want a relationship and goes psycho. I've seen it happen on both sides (guy and girl) at my school - it's not just the women that decide they want more.
make sure that you're both on the same page. Essentially, if you're looking for nothing but a f**ck-buddy, make sure she has absolutely NO expectations of anything more
Ohhh, ok, I'll try to read more carefully. I didn't know "make sure" = should. And I'm sure you would have given the same answer regardless of gender- point is, it's such a woman answer/perspective implying that one must make sure they both want the same things before they can have sex- ridiculous. I mean what if he just wants to bang, she wants a relationship, then they start sleeping together for a bit and he gets to know her and they get on the same page...happily ever after. But no, there needs to be this ridiculous conversation of what each wants after some flirting. Talk about killing the mood.