« on: April 08, 2006, 08:24:26 PM »
I highly recommend the getting out of state option. I left Chicago (and a ten-year on-and-off thing) for Texas, sulked for a year, then got together with my now-husband. Go west, young (wo)man! Or east, as the case may be. Loneliness can be empowering.
I think a move will be good for you. You can meet new people and be in a place where you don't have memories of time spent with your ex. And you have some great options, so it's Colorado's loss, not yours.
hopefully buy a little condo and get settled before school starts.
When are you planning on moving? I'm going to be leaving my job at the end of June so I have time to settle in and learn my way around Syracuse. And now that my BF is history, I am very glad that I chose Syracuse over somewhere in the CT/MA area where I've lived during our relationship. I think a new place will do wonders.