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Messages - guyutegirl (Jew-Lo)
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« on: May 24, 2004, 11:54:40 PM »
awww man. jewlo got rid of her pic. she was hot
jew-lo, for some reason i have the feeling that you're really HOT (maybe its that sex in a movie theater thing you poster earlier). can you put your pic as your avatar?
Wow, ttiwed, it takes a lot to make me blush but i think you did it. I have to admit i'm not very computer savvy, but I will try and find a picture of myself and see what i can do to put it up as my avatar--just for you (briefly, otherwise i feel sorta vain--no offense to others who have it as their avatars, I'm just somewhat modest--i know, you'd never me able to tell).
« on: May 24, 2004, 11:47:46 PM »
This was an awesome post about body hair removal and now its turned into a dating/relationship post. Lets get back to the important issue of shaving/waxing.
JewLo you asked about if guys like the totally shaved thing. I thought I would until I saw it and I was freaked out. It made the woman look like a girl made me feel dirty. Every so often I think that would be cool again and then I remember how disturbing it was.
That said I know alot of guys who like it, but I would say the type of guy who typically like it, you wouldn't want. Landing strip is the way to go. If you want to give a guy a thrill just change it enough so he knows you did something for him. Change shapes (squarish to triangle or whatever), make it smaller etc. Your guy will know you did it with him in mind and that will make him go wild.
How do I get my wife to wax? She did it for our honeymoon and it was awesome. Now she shaves and its like getting bumped back from first class to coach. Maybe I'll ask for this for our anniversery or my B-day and drop a ton of hints about how much I like it so she will keep it up. Whatta u think?
Hmmm...valuable insight. I've gone completely shorn every now and then, but honestly, i get frightened sometimes when i look down and see that. One guy i was dating started telling me how "baby soft" it was. I didn't even bother getting the pants back on--i flew out the door and never looked back. Ever since then, i get it all waxed except for something. And i do mix it up (more for my own entertainment). So...about getting your wife to wax. I mean, what if you were to get her "spa treatment" or something that involved a good wax and not much else (to keep it cheap) so it seems like a gift every time? I mean, if you're treating me to chinese water torture, it seems kind of enticing, because, you know, it's a gift. As far as women and gifts go, it's always the thought that counts. (at least, women who are worth it and i know your wife must fit in that category or u woudn't have married her). So even if we HATE the actual gift, we love the thought behind it. So long as you keep being thoughtful, she'll keep getting waxed.
« on: May 24, 2004, 11:34:06 PM »
We have to be careful not to treat men as we would want to be treated. The golden rule simply doesn't apply in male/female relationships. You have to treat him the way men usually treat women. Then you get results.
In many states, a dating relationship counts as 'domestic.' That's how my ex got convicted...one, because I'm one bad female dog, no matter how nice and innocent I seem in real life, and I will hold on like a pit bull until I've won; two, because he's a stupid cowardly a-hole who thought over a decade of brainwashing would stick; and three, he's stupid and lied on the stand, not realizing that I'm just as manipulative as he is (he thought I wouldn't show up to court). Long story. The last year of my life. The reason I'm leaving the state.
Damn, Lavia! Not only do you give good advice, you seem wise beyond your years...and it does sound like you are one bad female dog and i like it! If it's too personal, I understand, but can you elaborate at all about the last year of your life? That sounds insane. Was he convicted of a misdemeanor or a felony and what did he (try) to do to you? And what happened in court? Again, if it's too personal, don't answer. It just sounds like you've been to hell and back and I'm amazed and curious how you perservered. Damn.
Thank you! (blush)
Too personal, not necessarily. I do get paranoid from time to time that he might read this discussion group and figure out where I'm going to school...But whatever.
I'll email you offlist, but in a legal nutshell: misdemeanor conviction, probation (no jail), 2 trials, a few judges, a couple of prosecutors, and 9 months in total. And now I'm thinking about a civil suit too. But I can't find a lawyer to take it, so I'm representing myself once I become an attorney.
Strangulation/choking was the method. But don't think it's easy to walk away. Our relationship spanned over a decade. So I'm leaving the state to keep myself away from him...not the other way around. It's an interesting and real addiction.
So...criminal assault/battery, domestic violence; intentional tort (civil).
The worst offender in all of this? The criminal "justice" system. I'll email you my personal statement.
Holy hell, Lavia. I look forward to reading it
« on: May 24, 2004, 07:22:46 PM »
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