General Off-Topic Board / Re: The official college and window to hook up with hot girls is closing thread« on: December 26, 2005, 12:37:23 PM »
Bluegrey-- what sorority?
I decided to add my 2 cents:
I think everyone (to an extent) is originally attracted to a person because of looks. BUT... confidence is just as good as looks, in my opinion. If a guy projects a confident (not cocky-- there's a thin line) vibe... that adds about 20 points to his attractiveness score. But this is a hard line to walk, because there is nothing worse than a conceited guy. Also-- money does NOT mean a THING. When I was in HS it was cool to 'go out' with the dude whose dad had boats/lakehouses/planes/etc.... but now we are at that stage in our lives where smart guys HANDS DOWN outshine 'rich ones.'
And as someone on here said earlier, most of the girls on this board are pretty driven I guess -- so we do not want to depend on a guy financially anyway.
Bottom line is that, for me at least, it is HOT when guys are smart. There is nothing cooler than having a guy around who I look up to because I feel that he is intelligent. It is also really cool when a guy has done a lot for himself -- hasn't had to live off the parents.
I think the OP will do just fine... just break out of the shell, go up to girls and talk, and use that humor to your advantage.