What happens when there no longer a common ground among friends? When your paths in life are so far apart there just nothing left to talk about? Have you ever felt gulity after rant and raving about your goals to here a response of silence?
Anyone else in a similiar situation?\
You get arrogant about how you're going to law school and hence doing something with your life. Then you drop little hints about how your life is going to go well for you and how by comparison, your friends aren't doing nearly as well...
Partly true...I am arrogant at times but I've earned it and I'm not even in the thick of it yet
. My best friend is currently at Yale-Bridgeport studying anesthesiology and while her studying keeps her isolated for the most part when we get together things just click she chasing her dream while I'm chasing mines. My college roomate is currently NYPD and we chat here and there but nothing with depth. My other close friends are either married have kids or both. I feel out of the loop with them.... quick story
The other day we were hang out at my college roomates place and the conversation turned to having children. Without much thought I said "hell nah...not for at least seven years" just does fit in well with my current goals. Needless to say my friends with kids immediately went on the defensive...I felt like a totally a-hole but I wasn't sure why.
I know people grow apart and circles change but there something priceless about toasting it up with those who came up with you.